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broadNinja703 · 11-09-2012, 09:36 AM

Thanks, now I have ur attention...

Your Open Question: PLZ HELP?!!?!?!?!?? EASY POINTS +I ANSWER URS?

Thanks, now I have your attention,

First I want to ask out this girl, but dont know how and I want to be closer to her first, that's what I want help with

so i like this girl called emily, I'm wanting to ask her out. she is the best looking girl in my year, in my opinion (not meaning to sound shallow, cause I do like her for we personality Smile

looks are a bonus :/ my grandpa always said that you should marry an ugly woman cause they can't get any worse haha), but otheres dont seem to think so :L I play rugby, but i have a slight belly, i am starting to go to the gym on the 5x5 stronglifts program. We have spoken quite a few times on facebook, ad i really like her. Im 15, so is she .

(Just turned 15 on tuesday)
im 6ft, quite broad, with a mediumly sized afro. in the first 2 yearas of highschool, i didnt have a great popularity, but its better now.

she goes to my chemistry supported study too. It's a coincidence we go to it though

Ryan M · 11-09-2012, 09:44 AM

Only way to find out is to ask. You're still young so I think you would be able to have a friend talk to her for you.

H · 11-09-2012, 09:44 AM

Well bite the bullet and talk to her. Nothing too much, just a smile and a hi to start with, test the water and see whether there are signs she likes you too. If she does you just talk a little more each time you see her

Leon · 11-09-2012, 09:44 AM

The only way to become closer with a girl is by being right by her side as a true friend. Not only that, but you're going to have to learn how to make long conversations with her. Compliment her from time to time (don't do it everyday, just in moderation). Ask help in chemistry even though you don't need help! Drop your stuff (pencils, pens, stuff like that) by her and see if she picks up for you. If she does, smile and say thanks.

R · 11-09-2012, 09:44 AM

Instead of just talking to her through Facebook, try to talk to her in person more, and assuming you both have cellphones text her everyday, that usually makes people feel closer. And after texting lots, for a couple of weeks call her occasionally at night or whenever your both free and talk for a while. Do that a few times, then call her one day and say "hey, lets go to _____ (i.e. the movies)." and see what she says. Make sure you hang out with her alone a few times before you ask her out. Then to ask her out take her to dinner and go for a walk after and just ask . TA-DA

Emily · 11-09-2012, 09:44 AM

Thats funny, Im Emily and i know you...

lool im just messing just tell her you like her Smile

Jacob · 11-09-2012, 09:44 AM

As Ryan mentioned, the only way is to ask her out... and surely your or her friends could help with that. Your best best is to make friends with one of her close friends. If you are too shy to tell her friend that you like her, try hinting or talking about her to her friend a lot. I'm quite a bit older than you but when I was 15 I always used the friend trick, 'cause it WORKS! Smile

Good luck buddy and may the force be with you.

Emily Cashnella · 11-09-2012, 09:44 AM

meet up with her, get to know her a bit better, then ask her. Smile

Chris · 11-09-2012, 09:44 AM

So what your saying is.. Your confident that your 'fit' and shes not?

And that you want to ask her out? Shouldn't be hard then no? Smile

I'd say your grandads statement was probably not actual advice.

Just talk to her.. Speak about your interests and find a common interest..
That you can talk about and that will bring you closer. Then see how it goes.

Hope it helps Smile