Please give me your best advice!! Please read?

[Nicholas]

Hi so I'm a senior in high school and I met this girl through a church event where we went to a mission trip in Virginia. She is a junior and goes to a different school in the same area. We didn't really talk while on the trip, because I didn't know her and we weren't in the same group for anything.

Well anyway, when I got back home, she had added me on Facebook. I thought and still do think she is very pretty. She made a status on sayin bored, message me. So I did. We talked 4 or 5 times via text after I got her phone number after our first message conversation. I asked her if she would want to go get some food with me sometime for our first in person meeting. She said she would but in the next text said she was really busy and wouldn't know when it would work. Later that day she made a status saying how she wanted to avoid relationships because she was always hurting people. I decided to give her some space and haven't texted her for about month and a half now.

The point is, should I text her today to catch up, and maybe in a couple days ask again if she wants to meet up for food or something? I really think we can connect because we have a lot of similar interests spiritually and in school. Or should I move on and find someone else to talk to?

[cluelessgirl]

Call her or text her and see if you can get the chemistry flowing. IF not, move on.

[Stella]

You should talk to her soon, don't let her forget about you. She seems nice and if you like her and think she is pretty and nothing gone wrong yet so give it a try,before its to late.

[Cameron]

say "you would be hating life right now!"

Her: "why?"

You: "Because i havnt talked to you in like a month! "

be playful like that... and dont say lets get lunch because it puts pressure on her to say yes or no... say hey im going to go get lunch tomorrow with a friend, feel free to come with me if you would like

This will make it look like your not dependent on her coming or not, and if she says yes then tomorrow just say your friend pulled out last minute when she gets there.

Dont think about her too much, if you get emotionally invested in every girl you meet you will die, everyone learns this at some point of their life. Just think to yourself how easily she came into your life, and then think how easily someone else can come into your life...

Just make sure you dont pressure her into anything, especially if you havnt talked to her in a little while! Good luck

(E.g. guy: hey come to lunch with me?"

girl: no

guy: ok

well now the guy dosnt go to lunch and it looks more desperate (not what girls want)

---------better situation-----------

Guy: im going to lunch with a friend, want to come?

girl: no

Guy: ok

guy still goes to lunch, looks like he has a life and isnt desperate (what girls like)

[Sumarwan]

Dude, You gotta ask yourself first, do you really like her? If so it's not so complicated to ask her if she could go out with you and talk. And when you ask for it, Don't text, just call her. She'll be more likely to give you a good respond.

I know it might come a little weird when you talk to her, but that's the way you do it. Remember, Girls do love certainty and confident person.