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Jealousy... long distance relationship?
10-01-2012, 11:02 AM
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Jealousy... long distance relationship?
I can't stand it, guys... It hurts..badly. I'm in a long distance relationship with a guy I have known for 2 years.

Long story short he dumped me after he saw I was talking to other guys, (I didn't cheat) and 8 months later we're together again. He spoke to his ex out of "spite" about why she broke up with him, about her sex life, etc. It hurts so bad....

I mean it hurts really really bad. He loves her.. Before we got together again he wrote his ex a letter saying "My heart beats for you, I will always love you, always be there for you" rah

Usually I just think whatever but now it'sREALLY GETTING TO ME. Badly... You have no idea... I'm checking out his ex's twitter every day to see if she mentions any thing about my boyfriend, IM going CRAZY over this

CRAZY!! I think he still loves her, hes only with me cause he is lonely..

idk how to deal with this. Idk if it's just my feelings or the truth... deep down he still loves her.. OMG I'm just a mess PLEASE HELP ME SOMEHOW I'm driving myself up the wall here

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10-01-2012, 11:10 AM
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Seems like you two are just really immature.

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10-01-2012, 11:10 AM
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I did the exact same thing. Me and the fiancé split. We moved to different cities. I started dating a girl from my hometown while I was working in Austin 5 hours away. That was fine cause I would drive up there and she would drive down here. Them she goes to college at Texas Tech. Now she lives 8 hours away. We could hardly see each other after that. Maybe 3 or 4 times in a year. It was always texting and talking on the phone. So we took a break from each other. Then we got together again after another year. Then several months later I broke up with her cause my ex fiancé and I started talking again and we thought we were still in love with each other. That only lasted 2 months. Long story short, I messed up. I let go of the girl that really loved me and could have been a good wife. But I was impatient about waiting for her to graduate from Texas Tech. We are just friends now and she has a new relationship which is fine because I know I blew it. Just gotta keep moving forward though. Never look back. Cause that's what I did and it cost me :-)
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10-01-2012, 11:10 AM
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This is exactly why long distant relationships DON'T EVER WORK.
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