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I'm confused? Was this really her?
11-09-2012, 09:42 AM
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I'm confused? Was this really her?
So, I was just on Facebook and one of the girls on my list messaged me, "Hey cutie." I'm friends with this girl, sort of. I'm a freshman in high school and we started talking last year. We had Band together and I hung out with her and some friends at an amusement park one day.

I messaged her back and said hey and she asked what was up. I told her not much and then she messaged me "I miss talking with you. We should hang out soon."

I didn't talk to her very much, I mean I was sort of part of her small group for a little while but we never really got to know each other very well. The other day, her FB got hacked by one of her friends and I think it might be him because I don't really see much of a reason why she'd suddenly just message me and say that she missed talking with me.

Do you think it was her or her friend that send that to me?
I'm only asking this because I'm not very popular and I don't hang out with the group she hangs out with, so I don't want to go up to her and start talking to her all heavily (cuz I talk a lot) and then realize that her friend had actually sent that to me. Plus, she dated popular boys and is a cheerleader, she wouldn't want to date me. I doubt she'd call me "cutie" either.
To the second answerer, thank you, that was helpful and I know she was hacked because both the guy who hacked her and she herself posted about it and I saw it on my News Feed.

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11-09-2012, 09:51 AM
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No harm in asking her!

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11-09-2012, 09:51 AM
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First:
How do you know her FB account was hacked?

Secondly;
From your details, it sounds like this "hi cutie", etc. was not her and was someone else.

Third;
Sending a msg and asking her, point blank, if the msg's were from HER is more than appropriate.

Fourth:
This is a great excuse to speak to her and be a good friend.

If this had happened to YOU and someone had sent msg's as you..you would want to know that, right? You would want to know exactly what was said to other people..right? It's common courtesy to contact her and let her know...ending it with:

"..aww..I was all psyched I got such a cool msg from you..
and it wasn't you after all ;-( ..."
(which will be flattering to her) and she will have more contact with you in the future because you were so sweet.

Lastly, her so-called friend who sent the msg's to you probably has a little thing for you, which is why she sent those to YOU..and she was too embarassed to send a real msg to you as herself. iow; I would find out who, exactly, the friend was who hacked her FB account because (even though she's sort of a nut), she likes you.
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11-09-2012, 09:51 AM
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I guess it's not her.. asker yourself about it Smile
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