Help i think I made a huge mistake. did I?

[wreeek]

so i was with my boyfriend for a yr and half and he just recently told me that he wants kids and marriage but not until like 5-7 yrs down the line he is 26 i am 28 and i freaked out and figured he wasnt serious about me and so be began fighting alot and up until two days ago we were on the rocks and finally he started going out with his friends a lot not spending anytime with me and now its finally over and i guess it was mutual and then he goes and blocks me on his facebook why i dont know. im so heartbroken how he could just act like he doesnt care like this i figure he doesnt really care anymore and my heart is breaking i wish i could be with him and i cant see myself with anybody but him even thinking about being with another guy makes me ill. I dont know what tod o i have been see my friends a lot. i just wished he cared at least a little. Idk what i want out of this i guess just some support. i can't see myself ever getting over him.

[relievedplastic839]

Ok so what is the mistake, he let you go why not you do the same, PLENTY OF NEW SINGLE MEN out there, you may not want to move on but HE HAS....get over it

[Acro Chick]

You love him. Call him and leave him a message, e-mail, text, whatever! Try to tell him.

[ehverno2b40]

MY answer still stands in this question, FROM the first time you ask it.

[Yogini]

A few days ago you said you broke up with him because he wanted to wait and also you were angry because he got engaged to another woman in a short period of time and she broke up with him. You freaked out. You made a mistake. The relationship is over. He is giving you every signal that he is moving on. I can't even say how much I dislike FB due to relationship squabbles. Why would he keep you as a 'friend' if he's upset right now? If you hope to reconcile in the future then you need to send one heartfelt email or actual letter and say 'I am sorry for my behavior and reaction regarding your honesty concerning marriage and children. I should have shown respect, care and love and I did not do that. You were being honest with me and I betrayed your trust by being selfish. I am very sorry. Please know that I do love you and I would love to work things out but realize you need time and I also realize you may never want anything to do with me. I have to respect and honor your feelings. I am sorry I didn't the first time and then made it worse by staying angry. I love you and I wish you the best'. And then you move on with your life, understand why you got angry, improve yourself and maybe one day you guys might meet again, maybe not.

[Chris Durensky]

Marriage and kids in general is a touchy subject for guys, especially at 26. The fact that he was brining it up was a sign that he was thinking in that direction, just not there are as fast as you were. As ladies, we have a biological clock ticking, telling us we are running out of time, that isn't there for men.
This miscommunication could have been avoided with good communication skills. Breaking up over something this little should be a sign for you that the relationship probabley wouldn't have worked out in the long run when things really get heated over bigger things. Although it may not feel like it now, there is your special someone out there. He comes on his own time and FINDS YOU> no point in looking for him. Interpersonal communications is the study of how we use non verbal communications between each other and you might be very interested in learning a few things about it. Him spending more time with his friends meant he was hurt and retreating.
Taking that class in college changed my life and has enabled me and my husband to have a lasting relationship, argument free. It's understanding that the things we do and how we do them are sending signals to our friends, stranger and partners. It also went deeply into what to do when things get heated and how to de-escalate it. As far as getting over this OH so great guy, I don't know how many times I've felt like that. As long as it took to find a new oh so great one I suppose. There is nothing we can do when someone blocks us out from there life. It's the end of the discussion for them. So we turn to ourselves and find a way to put your focus and attention back onto you. Building your life the way you want it to be. Then when MR. Right comes along, he figures a way to add to it, not be your only source of happiness. I can't tell you how many vocations are wishing for someone that doesn't have a hubby and children waiting and are willing to pay big bucks to take up your free time. Use it to your advantage. Get that savings account going. Money will be a big issue when you become married. What about paying for that huge wedding you have dreamed of for so long. That isn't going to be cheap either. There will be plenty of time to spend with your future hubby and children, but you will have wished that you had saved more or worked more when you didn't have them. If it's children that you are really wishing that you had, become a big sister. Babies are great and all but they grow up and you have to be able to relate to them as older children, with problems and issues to discuss. Reach out to your friends who are married and have children. Everyone needs a night out. Finding someone to trust with that is really hard. Be a little selfish, use this time on you. Good luck and Best wishes.

[Another Crone]

Heart breaks take some time. Whether you heal or not is entirely up to you. You can spend the rest of your life moaning over this boy you knew for a couple of years in your 20's if you want to. Or you can decide, in another year, that you don't want to date boys anymore and that you might be ready for grown up men.

You are right. Your ex was not serious about you. Sorry.