20s + is this weird? short and will answer back?

[Rose]

So there;s this guy at uni who I like. I was randomly allocated into his group for an assignment- and pretty much any conversation that we had was around that (although I did try bring in a bit of flirt- but it wasn;t much). We recently were off from uni for four weeks for prac (we're studying teaching). During the middle of it I messaged him and added him on facebook- asking how prac was going. He doesnt really use fb that much and so the conversation kind of stopped after a few messages. Since we've been back (2 weeks) we haven't really had a chance where we can talk- we've maybe caught eeach others eyes once or twice in class when something was said by a peer...

but I'm just wondering- was it weird of me to have added and messaged him? is it weird that we've not really talked? whatcould he be thinking?

[Robert]

It could be a number of things.

1. He could be giving you the brush off.
2. He could be completely ignorant of the fact you like him.

Depending on what your intentions are, why not just pull him aside for a minute and ask whether he'd like to hang out. Whatever the answer, you'll know where to go from there. But if you were the one that made initial contact I would suggest he is well aware that you either like him or want to hang out and see where it goes as I'm sure 95% of the time it would be a male who would make first contact.