Anger/Moodiness towards my boyfriend, HELP?

[Stayce]

I have been with my boyfriend for over 7 months and at first we was inseparable, and was super happy. Then I saw he'd been flirting with other girls over Facebook, I spoke to him about it and he broke down into tears and apologised and said he never wanted to hurt me and would never do it again, that was that forgotten about and we was fine, I forgave him. Then he kept seeing one of his ex's and if he was with me, he'd like stumble on what to say and sort of look at her, she is very beautiful and it gets me really angry and I get very jealous, I know he's with me, but I feel not good enough and that he wants her still. So I often go in moods with him when he doesn't make me feel wanted or special sometimes, I get real paranoid that he wants her. But recently, he started flirting with other girls again, he was really protective over his phone ad he never was, he said they wasn't flirting, but why would he hide it from me?? I found out but this time I was very angry, he lied and said someone had got his number off Facebook and started texting him (I was crying at this point) but then he told me the truth, it hurt the fact he lied, and now I get moody because of what he did, and I took him back, I don't want him to do it again, I DO trust him, it's other girls I suppose, I love him so much, I don't want to lose him, what can I do???
When I say "seeing" his ex, I mean around town or something, he wasn't going to see her, she was just there

[Marie]

Sweetie...he will continue to cheat on you. He can resist the temptation...let this one go, there are honorable men out there.

[Olgie]

Girl, welcome to my world...lol I am with my boyfriend for about a year and a half now, all of the men in his family have cheated and naturally he always did too. But of course I am "Sherlock Holmes" and would find everything every time.
You are lucky he is not cheating on you, and you need to tell him, listen look at it from my point what if i was hiding my phone from you?? If you want me to get off your back then u need to start being ok with these things otherwise you did it to yourself, you asked me to forgive you and promised you'd change so i need to see and check if you changed. and let him know, that you do understand some girls will contact him randomly trying to be all flirty, but show him your going to be ok with that as long as he tells you like guess who randomly text me today?!?! and shows u the msgs, then u need to explain that your trust and insecurity will slowly dissolve because when he is open with you that's a sign that he has nothing to hide otherwise if he didn't do anything wrong and u stumble on some texts you'll wonder why he didn't tell you and he prob hung out with her etc. its only natural for us girls to create more drama than their really is....well good luck! hope my advice kinda helped

[mmm]

1. YOU MUST realize you do NOT trust him.

2. YOU MUST realize you CANNOT trust him.

3. If you want to forgive, he wants you to forgive - he can't have a facebook page any longer and he has to leave his phone out in the open at all times.

4. if he isn't willing to get rid of his bad habit that takes control of him (computer) and put his phone on the kitchen table when he gets home . . .he's still doing it . . .and he's not worth keeping

[Sammie]

Ahhh this is not good i feel for you because i know how it feels you think you trust someone so much and you tell yourself everything will be fine and its not going to happen again but honest truth he sounds a bit strange... he cries when you confront him yet he has done it again after apologising and promised you he wouldnt you have given him his 2nd chance so honestly babe you need to sit down tell him exactly how he makes you feel pull him up on EVERYTHING he has done and if you cant let him go i think it would be a great idea to tell him this is his FINAL CHANCE of sorting things and if he messes you about again thats it.. no discussing no 3rd 4th chances its over because im sure you a beautiful girl with a wonderful personality and anyone would love to have you as their GF some boys just dont realise what they got until they loose it.. show him your in control this time and that your not going to take anymore of this S***!!

Good Luck Girl <3

[Sheuly]

you must be try to forgot the past and try your best to remove the bad habit from your lover. I hope you will success.

[Yvette]

Humans are naturally going to be attracted to the opposite sex. It's normal for him to see attractions in other people. It's not OK for him to act on his attractions. Not if he is into you, and you and him are serious. As far as the ex she should not even be in the picture. If he or the both of you see her a simple smile and move on. It's as simple as putting the shoe on your foot. If you saw your ex which would be the man you are with now if you and him broke up, do you think you would just have hello on the brain or would you be trying to talk to him. Be up front with him on how you feel, don't cry, and don't be argumentative. Just simply express truly how you feel about his behavior. Be you and don't let his actions turn you into someone you are not. In other words just because he does things that seem shady to you doesn't mean you jump into a role of payback for lack of confidence. Maybe he doesn't know how good relationships are built because he has never been told at home. Some people don't know the real extent of true relationships and only have TV to guide them or some idiot uncle that is in and out of relationships. Anyways good luck.