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I'm confused and don't know what to think...?
11-09-2012, 09:53 AM
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I'm confused and don't know what to think...?
OK guys I need your help at this stage.. there was a guy I was going out and we broke up, I did hurt his feelings and moved on with my life... After few years I found him on facebook and added him as my friend, he added me back and I wrote him message just to ask how is he and wanted to apologize for any wrong doing as I felt so sorry for what I've done. Well he responded to my message back after one week or so, and we even chart for a little while. Then I asked him if we could meet up I just wanted to talk to him, he refused to answer me, then I decided to put everything in his mail box what I've wanted to say to him. I just wanted to be his friend nothing more than that. Since then he start playing games on a facebook, showing that he is online all the time but ignores me, liking different girls pictures, putting pictures of his own and his ex girlfriend before we met... Why is he doing that? Is he indirectly trying to tell me get off or deliberately trying to make me feel jealous? I feel soo bad, I wasn't asking him of anything just wanted to explain why I decided to break up and apologise, but he, perhaps, took my message wrongly. I don't know what to do now? Should I delete his contact and move with my life?

I haven't wrote to him anything since that last message where I apologise to him for my past behaviour.

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11-09-2012, 10:01 AM
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It seems he is trying to make you jealous. If you know for sure that you don't have romantic feelings for him and that there will never be a future, I would cut him loose before his feelings are hurt even more. You've apologized to him for what happened in the past and that's good on your part, but I think the poor guy is still hung up on you.

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11-09-2012, 10:01 AM
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I guess you're still affected by him , (you feeling his making you feel jealous) if you really want to cut ties with him and end whatever your relationship with him i guess you delete his account and move on. And if you want to be friends and nothing more than that don't delete his account. But i was doubting if you really just wanted to be friends, cause you seem affected by the posting photos of the ex-girlfriend and him . Time heals and distance .... Big GrinD
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11-09-2012, 10:01 AM
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I think he's trying to get back at you for hurting him in the past. If you have apologized already there is no need to apologize again. He may sense that you feel guilty and is taking advantage of that. He may wonder why you are looking for contact after so much time has passed. It's easier to go from friend to lover than to go from lover to friend. Analyzing him won't help. Friendship is a 2-way street. Your friendship is a gift you give to someone. But ask yourself this, does he want your friendship and does he deserve it. It's up to him now, the ball is in his court. People hurt each other and make mistakes all the time. If you hurt him in the past and you apologized to him and then offered friendship then that's all you can do. It's up to him now. But if he says he wants to be friends and then continues to play games and torture you on Facebook then let him go. He's not worth it.
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