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Should I just tell him I miss us flirting?
11-09-2012, 09:54 AM
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Should I just tell him I miss us flirting?
Ok, very long story short. I'll try to male it short anyway. There was this guy, called Callum, who I met on Facebook through my best friend (they were dating at the time).
They broke up, and I got closer to Callum, cheering him up, etc.
Then we started flirting, and we would text each other all day everyday, and I was just so happy Big Grin
Then, about a month ago, he said it would never work, because we live too far away and blah blah.
I was fine with it for a bit, you know just being friends.
But, now I'm really starting to miss when we use to flirt, and we were just happy all the time.
I'm constantly sad now, as I think of what we used to have, and now we just hardly text & constantly get bored.
I can't always talk to him about how I feel, because I sometimes tend to over react, and it pisses him off.
Should I just tell him I miss it? Or try to just forget itSad.

Please help:'(

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11-09-2012, 10:02 AM
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Try also to tell him you miss sex.

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11-09-2012, 10:02 AM
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forget him
deactivate ur current account and make a new
note:block him in ur new account
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11-09-2012, 10:02 AM
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Since he has already told you that he will not start anything with him, so why do you want to harass him again?

Let go and go on to the next. Don't waste time on one man for time and tide waits for no one.
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11-09-2012, 10:02 AM
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Hi Tash,

If I am being honest with you I think you need to let it go hun. He has made his feelings clear and perhaps the fact that he does not flirt with you or text much means that he no longer feels that way about you any more. I also think that by saying you miss him could push him even further away. I personally believe that if he still felt the same way then he would be talking to you etc.

You could send him a text asking how he is every so often and see if he replies or starts talking to you again but if he does not then I would take the hint and leave him alone until he wants to talk to you. I know it is hard but perhaps he once felt something for you and now doesn't or maybe he likes you but like he said it won't work so he doesn't see the point in speaking much or something.

It's up to you what you do but with him saying what he said a month ago and then not really contacting you, I do believe it is best to leave telling him how you feel and just be friends.

I hope everything turns out okay for you in the end though x

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