I constantly feel hurt by my boyfriend - help?

[Destiny W]

My boyfriend and I are 18. We have been together for 3.5 months. At the start we had a great connection, but then sometimes our late-night conversations would turn into arguments and upsetting each other, and I'd end up apologizing.

I feel like since I lost my phone a month ago, he's been making less effort with me. I got sick of always initiating conversation on Facebook so I stopped, and we went weeks without talking. Then he told me he was playing games all night everyday.

I also felt bad outside the bio exam hall when he was sneering and saying I wasn't good at biology. My friend said "That's not a very nice thing to say to your girlfriend!" I mean what he said probably was a joke, but it made me angry. Then I got the top marks in the year group for biology. He's been nice about it since.

Apparently I talk too much about the way my mother mistreats me, and he feels trapped, pressured to solve it. I avoid talking about her now but as a result, I feel like I can't open up to him fully anymore.

We only have one month left together before he goes to spend the summer with his family in China, and comes back for his first year at university. I suggested we go out today since it's the only sunny day this weekend. He didn't have plans but he couldn't be bothered seeing me. He invited me to his youth group tomorrow instead. I've gone once before but I felt left out. I said "Maybe.. Don't you want to do anything today?" He saw the message, never replied and went offline.

Maybe I'm over-sensitive but I feel rejected that my own boyfriend does not want to see me to spend some quality time together - it's been 2 weeks since we last did.

I thought we should make the most of the month we have left together but his lack of effort upsets me. He still kisses me at school but I feel like we are not what we used to be.. really compatible. Now we talk kind of awkwardly, except when we're not at school & in person. But he can't be bothered like today. I don't know where it all went wrong. Also, I am torn between going to a uni near him or one far away next year to study medicine, so we'd have to split.
What do you think? I don't know how to stop being so sensitive over him.

[Veronica C]

No one wants to be with someone that's constantly complaining and fighting...