what can you do when one member of your social group has made it obvious that she doesn't like you?

[toosh]

After plenty grief and silly little comments etc that are only made to me when its just the two of us. She is always super nice if anyone else is around. I have deleted her from my facebook friends and although I can be friendly if I see her I just do not consider her a friend anymore.
I had a serious accident a few years ago and somethings changed in me causing me to lose many friends. I also have some on going problems because of the accident meaning that I am still living off benefits and unable to work. I get confused because of a brain injury one of the problems I have and forget myself and have been known to talk too often about my problems even though she had made it obvious she didn't care or want to help. Sometimes I just say I want things to get better or at least move on and that is enough to annoy her. She can be so silly that if I ask for help because of any of my problems like the fact that my vision is not so good she will roll her eyes up to heaven. She doesn't think I should mention anything. She also says if I mention wanting a baby someday that I should have one alone with complete disregard for the problems I have and my inability to be able to manage that alone. Unless we are in a group when she is very understanding. Talk about two faced.
This is who I am now and i know she doesn't like me but how do I carry on when we have some mutual friends.
We Obviously don't get on but not wanting to cause any trouble for others what do I do just put up with her

[JD]

wtf! what a bunch of lames and fakes. If i was in a group and didn't like the person who was in the group i was in from the start, id tell them straight up. Shes probably jealouse. People who hate you but didn't show it from the start are most likely jealouse people. I have always had my haters. Who cares, just keep them around.

[Aaron]

I know u don't want.to be around her but you have to deal with it

[princess]

Ignore her. Unless in group situations, then b civil to her but other thsn thst theres not much else u can do except b the better person. Good luck with having a child and im sorry to hear u had an accident resulting in brain injury. If shes just going to b a bit** then be better than her and b nice. Bullies and ppl like her love sreing their actions cause pain, so if u dont show any reaction to her nastiness she will tire of being mean and leave u alone. Good luck

[jac the hat]

yes just go through the motions but blank her out of your internal vision - dont let her get to you if she cannot bully you she ill have to pick on someone else in the group and they will be more likely to out her so just bide your time she will show her true self at some point.

[Mags]

Well, she is definately jealous or probably just possessed or something cus she can't be rolling her eyes in front of you and not expecting you not to notice -_- I say you ignore her. When she talks to you just start talking to someone else. Make her feel invisible. Tell your closest friends to hang out with you & leave her in the dust like a loner : )

[clang_uk]

Well if you like the rest of the group then just ignore her.

If you don't really care about any of them - just move on to some other friends.

This all sounds like petty jealousy from their part - and I doubt if they will ever grow out of it.