Shes Being Really Random..?

[tyber]

So, I've been talking to this girl on Facebook since the middle of June... we got over 2400 messages/texts etc by the end of the summer. Since we seemed to have a TON of stuff in common I decided to ask her out since I didn't know if once school started again (Shes 16 and I'm 17) shed be getting hit on / going out with other guys.

She told me no because "she doesn't really like dating in general" and that her decision was "after a lot of consideration because you're pretty much awesome" and she "still wants to be friends".... so a couple days later her best friend talked to her about it (Not my idea) and found out that shes only had 1 boyfriend and only told me she didnt want to since she didn't know if she "liked" me or not because we haven't actually met before.

I've been trying to organize to do something with this girl for like 4-5 weeks now, and every weekend shes busy ("busy" ? ) doing something... shes still talked to me a lot since I asked her out, but the last few days she doesn't seem to respond to anything anymore. Like most people I check my Facebook messages whenever I'm on there and it tells me that shes "Seen at [Time]" my messages the past few days, but she doesn't respond or say anything back anymore...

I guess I'm kind of "stuck" now and I really dont know what to do / what im supposed to do now..? Wait it out? Try again in a few days? Ignore her?


*I'm fine being "just friends" but it still seems odd... shes talked to me for over a month since I asked her out

*We've never met before, which is why I've been trying to organize something.

*The last time I "really" heard from her was Wednesday of last week, but she sent me like a 2 word message on Sunday...

*The last time ive sent her something was Monday

*Literally nothing "different" has happened at all, they just all of a sudden stopped talking

*Ive been trying to organize stuff "as friends" in the least creepy way possible.. even suggested to make it a group thing.


I just find it really odd shes read my "recent" messages but hasn't responded to me for a few days/a week?

[Jeremy.W]

She just wants to be friends. Get use to it and move on. Later on she will want her chance, then you get to kick her to the curb. And that's the best feeling ever.

[Boxer]

"....Facebook....."


Idiots playing on mommy and daddy's 'puter......



NEXT.................

[My Mind]

She just wants to be friends bro. She might want something later. If I was you I would just sorta back up and see what she does. I would make her miss you man. You can take that chance here. Please answer mine:http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AodhtpYKbCkGNJR5Kiq_74Dty6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20121013080920AABpz5Q

[Bethyf.k.]

She might think you won't like her when you actually meet, and also that she might not like you when you meet. I know I wouldn't go out with a guy I've met online, for all she knows you're a complete pervert. Just saying. If she doesn't talk to you, there could be loads of reasons mainly not concerning you. Also, she might not be 16 at all, you don't know that and that might be why she doesn't want to meet up, cause you'd find out. Also, she may have had a bad experience with her first boy-friend and doesn't want to risk it again. There are loads of possibilities!!! "She" may not even be a girl... You really havent thought this through...