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Ka · 11-09-2012, 10:15 AM

This guy in my class has a huge crush on me but I don't like him like that. He was my friend at first and I thought that was it, than he started getting all cheesy and buying me things. I told him I don't like him before he got the wrong signal and he started saying he liked me since he saw me, that I should stay with him or he'll get depressed and lonely, and for me to be his girlfriend for at least 1 day and ALL THIS SH***T... I told him I don't like him, that I will NEVER be his girlfriend and throw him hints IN HIS FACE about it, but he seriously doesn't get it. It's like he's illiterate.

Now at first I thought he was cool but he found me on facebook, stalked my entire information section, stalked where my friends live, my pictures and it's really weird. He changed his profile picture (which he never had 1 until today) and think it'll impress me..... He kept saying cheesy things like "I want to see you Smile

)" even though we see each other EVERYDAY in class.. he thinks he's in love. He follows me everywhere around school if I don't say I'm going home, so I always tell him that. he also has no friends.

And we only met for about 1 1/2 WEEK...... I see him everyday in school so there's no way to avoid this =\ PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP.

He's 19, I'm 20.
Should I get a guy friend and pretend I'm dating him for him to leave me alone?!?!
It's not as bad as him coming to my house and begging me, so no cops.

I just want him to leave me alone =.="
@Stacy, I've been acting like a b*tch, he seriously doesn't get it.

Shiny · 11-09-2012, 10:23 AM

Tell him you're gonna get cops involved. That'll freak him out

Princess Stephanie · 11-09-2012, 10:23 AM

I would just tell him to leave you alone. Be mean if you have to!!

Stacy · 11-09-2012, 10:23 AM

Yea pretend you have a boyfriend Smile

that's a good idea. Or start acting like a bit** around him so he won't like you any more lol

Ska · 11-09-2012, 10:23 AM

This guy is annoying, but he's not stalking you (I don't know what you mean that he "stalked" your Facebook profile -- to me that sounds like a super melodramatic way of saying that your privacy controls weren't properly set, so he found and read your profile), and I think it's a bit much for you to be calling him "obsessive" and "desperate" after, what ten days? But, still, there are some things you should and could do to cut this off.

1) If you have any gifts he gave you that you have not yet returned, give all of them back immediately. Leave them in a garbage bag by his locker or car. If he tries to buy you anything further, don't even accept it.
2) Stop engaging him in conversation, period, in person or online. DO NOT SPEAK TO HIM. He'll probably have a new love of his life by the middle of that afternoon.
3) Report him to your school authorities IMMEDIATELY.
4) Block him on FB (I mean, come ON!) and change your privacy settings so that you can't be found by any idiot who feels like looking you up. Tell your friends what is happening and ask that they tighten up their privacy settings so that he cannot view your profile through theirs.

Do NOT do the fake boyfriend BS. You're having drama with a weirdo -- it's not right to pull a third party into that. Besides, you need to make it clear, the same way you would with a breakup, that it's him you aren't interested in. You don't want to send the message that if you weren't attached, you two might have a future.