Advice on girlfriend who may have cheated.?

[mreed122]

Ok, so here's the deal. My best friend "Adam" was dating "Britney", and I've had feelings for her for a while, which she knew about. They started having problems so I stepped back, so as not to influence her decisions concerning the break up. I think this may have hurt things between her and I. So she and I have been talking, and I've already talked to my friend about it, and he obviously wouldnt be happy with it, but he's ok with us dating.

Now comes the fun part. It turns out that this girl has been spending a lot of time with another guy "Corey", who is also a friend of my buddy Adam. And I was getting suspicious. There were little things that didn't seem right. For instance she has lots of pictures of Corey in her room but only a couple of me. There have been several phone conversations with this guy that i've heard part of before she walked away to talk privately, which didn't sound right for "just a good friend" I was also driving to the grocery store when i passed Corey's house, which is down the street from mine, and her car was there. I was curious, as she said she couldn't get out that night, so I waited down the street and called her, no answer. They came out about 5 mins later, and though it was dark and I was a good hundred feet away, Im pretty damn sure she kissed him. She actually saw me as she drove past, not that I was hiding, so I just asked her, and she denied anything was going on. She went to a black tie event with him as her date, even when i expressed my concerns about the situation. I actually asked her not to go, to choose between him and I and she was incredibly upset. I've also noticed that she and I have been fighting a lot lately, and while a lot of it is my fault, i feel that she's being very locked down with me lately. I used to be the guy she could talk to about anything, and it doesn't seem that way anymore.

Also, heres the best part. I've talked to Corey on Facebook, and I outright asked him if they were dating, and he said yes, for a couple months now. So i said that she and I had been dating for a while now too, and he wrote back that they weren't actually dating, then he blocked me on facebook. I asked her about it, and her response was that he said it "because he knew that I liked her, and he thought that I wouldn't make a move on her if i thought she was dating him" because apparently he's feels bad about lying to Adam because they're friends and he doesn't want to tell Adam that she and I are dating. This all sounds like a bullshit excuse, because Adam knows that I like her, and he's one of my best friends.

So I've also asked this girls brother who said that she and the Corey were dating. This was all causing major problems lately, especially with the fact that she's been so locked down with her feelings lately. So the other day, one of Adam's buddys calls him and says that he heard that Britney was cheating on Corey with Adam, and that he felt that he needed to say something to Corey about it. This obviously upset Adam, because he had no idea that Britney and corey were dating. So he calls me up and he asks me about it, because he thought that she and I were trying to make things work so obviously I got upset too. So we asked her about it, and she said no. but adam texted corey and said something, which obviously upset corey because he all of the sudden stopped talking to Britney. so she calls adam up and starts bitching him out for saying stuff behind her back. So later that night I went to her house and asked her mom if I could get my stuff and her mom asks whats going on. So I told her that Britney and I have been having issues lately, and I asked her about Corey. Her mom said that Britney and Corey had been dating for a few months now, but they just broke up today. So I asked Britney about it with that new bit of evidence, and she still denies that they're dating.

So basically I gave her the choice of him or me. She won't make it. She says that she wants to try to make things work with him, but since they probably won't anyway, she wants to be with me. I basically told her that if she picks him, I'm not going to be around if things don't work out between them. Which upset her greatly, she basically said that if i make her choose then she's not picking either corey or me. I've waited for more than a year for her to be single, I love this girl to death. So now, she wants to make things work with the new guy, but she still wants me in her life. She's even said we could continue hooking up, as long I don't tell anyone. Which is not ok with me. What should I do? Let her try and work things out with him, hook up with her behind Coreys back, and then move in when she breaks up with him? or tell her to fuck off? because I'd like her to be in my life, at least as a friend.

[Breeha]

Nice one but check these point ..


My 100% tested point.. Check it once .. then told me

First use eye-contact on of most powerful way to attract . when ever you feel that he see you don't goes down your eye sight mean you have to look at them even he turn there eyes down and you don't.

Second some time look at them when you feel that he looked me, make a little smile and then down your eye sight slowly.

Third try to spend maximum time with him.

This will produce a good love for you . And he will knows that you loves him. If she continues ignore you then just comes to normal point he don't need you.

[Mumu, KP]

This girls loves male attention...I am sorry I had to break it to you this way. But you know what, find someone better, end of story.
Staying friends is not a big deal....you could even try dating her when she is past this phase of unlimited attention.
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[Ryan]

man, she sure does want to win all. she wants you, then she wants him, and now she wants the other guy, then she wants him.
make her choose. if she wants you, it shouldn't be any problems.
but, you'd still want to be her friend after she did all these things? i'd rather not. do not go into the hell of friendzone. get away!

[Sam]

Simple. 4get and 4give. Sori . I didnt read the story. So i m telin u life dnt end up with 1 fucking boy or girl.

[Ruby]

You're not even a good friend! Why would you even try to date your best friend's ex girlfriend? Like that is so wrong. & you are an idiot for staying with her because she is cheating on you and will always cheat on you. Let her go she obviously doesn't like you & your her backup if you haven't noticed. If i was your friend i wouldn't even be your friend anymore.