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Fdgfd · 11-09-2012, 10:23 AM

Twice I've been with a girl where the relationship lasted a long time and it was somewhat serious. One where a girl had me live with her. Another where she was with me constantly online over the phone and soon to be living with me. I was in good shape and was fairly happy. I knew I wasn't perfect but the girls wanted me around. But I started to notice things every now and then. Both of them were interested in another guy and there were subtle hints they'd leave me for them. They eventually started to say and do some really screwed up crap. One defending her exboyfriend more than me when he would call her. Another allowing this guy to hit on her and my girlfriend telling him to BLOCK ME when i started fighting with him. Both obviously never loved me even though they wanted to be with me at the time... for that short amount of time anyway knowing full well they were gonna throw me out.

After both these girls dumped me for another guy they literally lasted with the guy less than a month before they were calling me to use me both wanting to live with me for a little bit cause cheating on me actually ruined their life for a little bit. then they both treated me like garbage and never wanted to speak to me again, EVER. NEVER AGAIN JUST POOF GONE. They never looked back. So I stalked them for a while. You know what happened? they got with another guy. I watched their relationship for months waiting for it to fall apart. THE RELATIONSHIPS NEVER FELL APART. One got pregnant and a kid after a year together. The other living in their own apartment for the past few months. Me alone depressed and no self esteem completely destroyed and embarrassed to the point i got rid of my facebook. No one cares about me, lol. **** my life. I literally have no friend and no self esteem and gained weight. I struggle to stay in shape now about after all the drama the 1 or 2 male friends i did have are gone too now. No job. Nothing. Ill get another **** job soon probably. Then probably hang myself.

CAB · 11-09-2012, 10:32 AM

Great story...tell it again!

faintpickle384 · 11-09-2012, 10:32 AM

girls arent everything. respect yourself and tell yourself you didnt need them anyways. im sure you can find a much better girl than that.

Nikki · 11-09-2012, 10:32 AM

Well look. From what you wrote you appear to be extra jelous and controlling. Why would any girl want to be with you all the time if she does not love you and is interested in another guy? I think you were probably exaggerating. But once you get something like this in your head it ruins all the happiness of the relationship, which is why the girls leave. Now once they leave you start stalking them, apparently making things even worse.

Now let's assume I am wrong and you had it right. Suppose those two girls were really using you and they really had firm intentions from the beginning to go with somebody else. It is very hard to believe, but even in that case, relax! They are only two girls! If girls can move on, guys should be able to move on even faster. Find a different kind of girl, do not let her use you or take you for granted and leave those two freaky girls where they belong: in the past.