Why am I getting jealous?

[Nina]

So my boyfriend has a lot of friends who are girls and it kinda bugs me. I'm not the jealous type, but with this guy its just so different. Anyway, when I go on his Facebook I see all his status comments and from these girls saying "ily you're adorable" and he'll reply with "ily too" and it pisses me off. This other girl who he's friends with is like in love with him and I wanna tell her to.back off but that would cause problems. Like she'll call him babe and say "brat (:" and had the nerve to request a marriage acceptance on fb. gladly he didn't accept it, but ugh why am i acting this way? Any advice? Btw I really love him and I'm 19, he's 20.

[Pamela Johnson]

I think the better question is why is he acting that way? I think you are justified in your feelings and even if you think you love him he clearly does not love you. Anyone who loved you would not act that way.

[Skywalker]

You are totally justified in your reaction, any normal girlfriend OR boyfriend would react this way if their other half was doing this. And to be honest hes a bit of an asshole for acting like that when he already has a girlfriend, I would definitely speak to him about it if you havent already and just say how youre feeling about the situation, if he was a decent guy he would happily stop acting this way if he knew it was upsetting you, and if he carries on he really isnt worth your time. Some guys are naturally flirts and speak like this but now he has a girlfriend he has to learn that it can be really upsetting for the girl to have to go through other girls telling him they love him and flirting !