My friend is dating my crush!?

[Hiyori]

So this is going to be kind of a long story. I better start from the beginning.

So last year, I started liking this guy who was really smart, funny, amazing, and he smiled a lot. I really, really liked him, and I still like him now. We became really good friends and he's always able to cheer me up when I'm feeling down.

On the first day of school, I met this girl who had just moved here. I invited her to sit at lunch with me and my friends, and she gladly accepted. We quickly became friends and she is really optimistic and cheerful. When we became close enough, I told her I really liked this guy in our grade. They met each other on Skype and have been friends ever since. After she knew him for about a month, she told me she liked him. A few days later, she said she didn't like him anymore. And a few days later, she said she liked him, but wouldn't date him. We were chatting on Skype about a week after that when one of my other friends, who was best friends with my crush, asked my friend who she liked. She said my crush, and told him to tell my crush. My crush asked her out the very next day, and she said yes. Now they are going to the school dance together.

He pulled her over during lunch period and asked to talk with her. When I found out he had asked her out, I was so heartbroken and upset, and I ended up crying the whole lunch period. When she came back, she was so happy, and she started talking about how her life was wonderful and how great it was because now she has a boyfriend. Even though I was crying, she didn't give a s*** and kept on talking about how wonderful it was. One of my other friends hugged me and said it would turn out okay.

But it just got worse. My "friend" set her profile picture on Skype to match her boyfriend's (my crush) and even changed her screen name. Her status now reads: ISN'T LIFE JUST WONDERFUL?!
I was even more heartbroken when I realized his status was set to: I should be happy for a while

For days now it hurts so much to think about it that I can barely speak. I am really depressed and my "friend" is becoming more and more of a b****. She is also posting embarrassing pictures of me on Facebook, and making fun of me.

For each person she has a different personality, too. For one of my best friends, she's cute and crazy and loves purple and cupcakes. For me, she's obsessed with anime and drawing. I feel like she's stealing my identity. I have also noticed my crush barely smiles anymore. And every time I try to talk with him, he's always busy chatting up his girlfriend.

I am just so offended and hurt and heartbroken and I don't know what to do. It also pisses me off that I've known him since we were in preschool, and have liked him for over a year now. And now she just appears out of the blue and they're dating after just 3 weeks! They barely know each other, and yet she claims to have 'strong feelings' for him. I feel like slapping her every time I see her now.

She has offended me in every way I can imagine, and it needs to stop. My friends have agreed with me, but I can't seem to find the words to tell her, nor WHEN to tell her. What the heck should I do?!

[Chelsea]

Well...

First of all, try to get your crush alone and ask him if he's happy about the relationship.

Secondly, go up to your bitch of a friend and confront her. Tell her all about what she's done to you, how she's made you feel, and how she's fake. Don't talk to her after that, and quit hanging out with her.

You should tell your crush how you felt about him, but before you do that, tell him how you don't think his girlfriend is the right one for him. Try to make him laugh and smile like he used to so he can actually realize your right. Its important that you tell him his girlfriend isn't right before the 'how I feel about you' otherwise he might think your just jealous.

Hope I kind of helped

[highscale664]

Your friend is such a b**** (no offence to her :/) i suggest you try doing something evil to her, be sneaky and try be nice to her, (just for a innocent profile XD) You should also talk to your crush alone and ask about how he's feeling with this totally good (bad ) relationship, and i am not sure if i understood right about the new crush? If shes flirting with your new crush then tell what's supposed to be HER boyfriend about it, get evidence if he doesn't believe you. So yeah, hope my answer helps.

[sillypartner026]

Talk to him privately if hes happy about the relationship with that "friend." Besides, you also have your other friends who agreed that she offended you alot, so why not discuss your problem with them? Talking it over with friends can help you feel a little better.
Ignore being too friendly with that girl you were talking about, but don't look like you hold a grudge or seem hateful.