This Forum has been archived there is no more new posts or threads ... use this link to report any abusive content
==> Report abusive content in this page <==
Post Reply 
 
Thread Rating:
  • 0 Votes - 0 Average
  • 1
  • 2
  • 3
  • 4
  • 5
help me guys! Ill answer yours?
11-09-2012, 10:28 AM
Post: #1
help me guys! Ill answer yours?
am a student studying abroad in Europe. I don't know anyone here, so one of my good friends introduced me a guy she knows via Facebook who lives in Europe too. Him and I exchanged numbers, and even though I didnt think anything would come of it, we really started to like eachother and have been talking for over a month via Skype and text. Considering she knows him, I know he is a safe good guy, and after a month he invited me to come visit him (he lives a country away). I really liked this guy so I agreed, and he purchased me a ticket. I am supposed to leave next week.
I was happy as could be, but by chance my ex of 3 years randomly contacted me saying he misses me. Him and I hadnt even spoken in 6 months. I truly thought I was over him until I heard from him and all these old emotions started to come back. My ex said he wants to work towards getting back together while I'm studying away and make it official when I come back in 2 months.
I am single, so I could visit this guy and see where things go from there, but I feel guilty going to see him knowing that deep down I want to be with my ex.
The problem is the ticket is purchased by his name. I could pay him back, but not until I returned home.
Should I
1. Just go and see if we have a connection and decide what to do afterwards
2. Tell him I cant go and tell him I will repay him as soon as I get home
3. Other

Ads

Find all posts by this user
Quote this message in a reply
11-09-2012, 10:36 AM
Post: #2
 
3. Just go and see if we have a connection and decide what to do afterwards.Now answer mine.

Ads

Find all posts by this user
Quote this message in a reply
11-09-2012, 10:36 AM
Post: #3
 
Hey. If I were you, I would go see the guy and see what happens. I know you still want your ex, but you are officially single and you already had this planned. I don't think you are doing anything wrong by going and you may regret it later if you don't. This could be a deciding factor for you! If you connect with this new guy then you will know it wasn't meant to be with your ex. If there is no connection, or you cannot stop thinking about your ex, just enjoy the time visiting and tell the other guy you just want to be friends. No harm done! I say GO.

Please give me your advice on mine? I just posted it :
Why does he say he loves me but he won't be with me? (under this same category)
Find all posts by this user
Quote this message in a reply
11-09-2012, 10:36 AM
Post: #4
 
You should def go and see the new guy. Word of advice. Screw the ex. Dont forget about the reason you and him are not together. Something went wrong and you ended it. If it didn't work the first time it will not the second. Also when i studied abroad I would go stay in a hostel for a night and meet all kinds of people to hang out with. Good luck.... the ex sucks. Dont take him back
Find all posts by this user
Quote this message in a reply
11-09-2012, 10:36 AM
Post: #5
 
1. Just go
Find all posts by this user
Quote this message in a reply
Post Reply 


Forum Jump:


User(s) browsing this thread: 1 Guest(s)