Does He Have a Girlfriend?

[Sabriele]

Okay, so I have been a total creeper and have been Facebook stalking the guy I currently have a crush on (horrible, I know).

While I don't plan on creeping through his photos again, I am trying to puzzle out whether or not he has a girlfriend.

Almost all of his friends are girls, so of course, everything posted is by one or girl another. What I noticed though, is that there is one girl (who is currently studying abroad), who is next to him in all of his photos. In one she has her head on his shoulder and in others, they are just candid shots with 4-6 people, where she is next to him. She also is a frequent poster on his wall and it looks like some girls from their friend group will update her on funny things that he has said during conversation. His cover photo is also a picture of the two of them and sometimes she will post joke-flirting websites on his wall, but he doesn't give much of a response beyond a thanks (granted, he doesn't give much of a response on most things).

He doesn't have any relationship status posted, but he also strikes me as the kind of person who may opt not to advertise his relationship to all of his Facebook friends.

I don't know, what do you guys think? He has some profile pictures with her, but also tons with other girls he is friends with too. So I can't decide if the two of them are just really close friends, or if there is something going on between them. I like him, but I don't want to embarrass him or myself by trying for something that isn't possible.

Before you say anything, I know that I need to get a life and that this is a waste of my time. I also recognize that I'm acting creepy beyond belief. But with that out of the way, can you please answer my question? Only earnest answers have a shot at getting the 10 pts.

[Laura Hill]

Sound like he just has a close friend. It might turn into something, but nothing to to personal. Ps: you aren't weird. It's just how girls are(:

[Michael]

All this computer crap you substitute for relationships!

Get in front of the guy and talk to him. If you are interested, give him some of the 57 tells girls have to show they are interested. We are dense, so you may have to repeat the sequence.

And if you didn't sign the "Girls exclusivity accords" executed in Paris in 1980, you are not bound by them. This means if he doesn't have a ring on his finger, he is still in play,. If he wants to ask you out he will. Let him deal with the other girl if there is one.

Also, article 18, paragraph B, subsection 13 says you are allowed to date more than one person at a time if you are under age 73 and single.