How to act arround your ex in class? please help?

[Violet]

this is our story:well we dated for a while a few months ago, and then hooked up last week at a party. i don't even know why i went to a party he was gonna attend... anyways. we spent the night at his place, he said that he wants me and only me. and then in the morning after we had sex , i go home and get a phone call that he doesn't want me anymore. he said that he was drunk and everything when he said all the things he said, and that when he was sober he realized that it's not what he wanted. BUT when he asked me to make love to him and talked about us being back together in the morning, he WAS sober. he's messed up and i just don't know what to do because i'm heart broken. i truly believed in him and everything he said. i just don't get him. so i was really mad at him and deleted him from my facebook. and so tomorrow is school.... and i haven't seen him after what happened.. i didn't go for a few days and when i came back he wasn't there too. but i'm guessing that tomorrow he may come. i truly don t feel like going tomorrow. i'm scared. everyone in class know what happened. i feel ashamed of my self. at one point i felt like quiting school . i'm scared!! am 18 and and i'm 12 th grade, and i don't wanna quit because of him . he was my first and i waited for the perfect guy, but now i feel sorry for myself that i waited that long for an ******* like him. my friend told me, go to school, look really pretty and then he might want you back, but do i really want him back? i don't know, i still have feeings for him, kind of :/

[Snake Bait]

Act like all is cool. You don't want him back. It is just asking for pain.

[Karen0914]

Ask to have a talk with him to sort out what each of you want. Once that's clear, you can be friends or at least be aquaintances if it's gonna be awkward. Going out doesn't really seem to fix anything since he seems confused about what he wants.

Good luck!

[♥ROYAL♥]

Trust me, those feelings you have are just a natural brain reaction that happens in us girls' brains after sex. You feel attached because you were intimately close with someone. Don't go back to him, even if he begs you, tells you that you're the best thing that ever happened to him, or that he was dumb, don't go back to him. Please, because if you do, it will start a cycle in your life, and you'll never be able to stand up for yourself or give yourself worth. Yes, do go back to school, look good, but NOT for him, for yourSELF. Because you're worth it and he's an asshole that doesn't deserve someone who cares like you do. You're a senior, enjoy it, and even if anybody says anything to you about it, shrug it off, because you nor anybody else knows half the stuff those people have done that they're ashamed of. They'll only be judging you if they hate themselves. Be proud of yourself and the decisions that you've made because they make you wiser. Fuck what they think because it isn't important.

[ngp590]

You're at 18 A guy will say anything just for him not to say he just dog.This guy you with is a on and off guy.He about the sex not the person.Yea he said he was drunk. Boy and men has a single track mind about sex.It's about getting as much as possible at all cost.Even if it's to tell you what you want to hear.Sorry it's the dog mentality in the male species.Sorry that you had to go through that.Remember when a person is drunk they are going to say or do something that's hidden in there brain with out thinking about it.So take caution when you deal with people like that.The truth will come out.You can forgive him as long as he don't keep you going through that again.And if you have to have sex have safe sex no matter how much he say he love you.And if you are still unhappy leave him you've enough time to find some one better.