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What should I do? It's worrying me and I cannot decide what is the best decision. Help?
11-09-2012, 10:30 AM
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What should I do? It's worrying me and I cannot decide what is the best decision. Help?
Thank you for taking the time to read this.
There is this boy in my class.
He likes me alot.
I've known since May.
He likes every thing I put on Facebook/IG.
He hasn't said a word to my face that I can remember.
Anytime he does talk to me is on Facebook message.
I don't like him.
He is too pushy.
He has asked me out 3 times.
I've said all 3 times that I either want to be friends, or that I am not looking for that right now.
He won't give up.
He hasn't asked me out for almost 2 months.
He tries to sit near me in class sometimes.
He hasn't messaged me for over a week(since my birthday and he said happy b-day)
His sister told me he only likes me cause he thinks I'm pretty. (Which I can't really help because he doesn't know what my personality is like)
I like someone else
What if asks me out again? He won't give up! I didn't see him at school last week cause we were outta school. I see him again tomorrow probably. I'm so confused. Help???

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11-09-2012, 10:39 AM
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He's shy and clingy. You may have to hurt his feelings if this gets any worse, and simply confront him and tell him to back off.

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11-09-2012, 10:39 AM
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aww, its kinda sweet lol but i get where your coming from. i think if he asks you out again just say i dont think we know eachother that well, we never talk at school or anything. Since he hasnt talked to u in ages he'll probably struggle to find the nerve too, and won't really talk that much, so using this excuse kinda makes it his fault that he cant get you... if this makes sence lol Smile dw i told my best friend to do this and it worked so well!! good luck and hope this helps!
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11-09-2012, 10:39 AM
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I believe you should confront him in person. If he has only ever spoken to you on Facebook, saying "No" to his face will make things much more real for him and he might finally understand.

Don't say it in front of lots of people, talk to him away from people and say "Look, I appreciate your comments on Facebook and I'm glad you seem to like me. But you need to know I am not interested and, in all honesty, I'm getting annoyed with your persistency. I'm happy to be friends but you need to stop pushing and just accept that no matter how many times you ask me out I'm not going to say yes"

What if he asks you out again? Say no. Don't let him worry you or scare you. Don't ever feel pressured into saying yes to this guy.

Maybe you should ask the person you do like out? So that this guy can see you aren't interested. He might then think if he were to continue asking you out your boyfriend would be the one to tell him to stop instead, and maybe that would be a little be frightening.

Personally, I think he sounds a little lonely and pathetic. Sort of like Raj from the Big Bang Theory sometimes (sorry to use such a bad example) so I think maybe being SLIGHT friends will benefit him in the future.
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