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Guy that is pissy I don't like him.?
10-01-2012, 03:20 PM
Post: #1
Guy that is pissy I don't like him.?
I went to high school with this guy and we barely had any communication during those four years. I knew he had a massive crush on me but I never saw him in that light. He was actually a really creepy guy who like made it obvious he stalked you and knew things about you from social networking. He had absolutely no proper social skills/dating game and just came off as creepy and overly aggressive. It didn't help as well as being creepy looking.

I barely ever spoke to him and kept my distance as guys like that take a "hello" as synonymous as "Lets have sex." Its been three years since I graduated and this kid still likes me. He writes all these creepy status about me, such as "The thing I want most, I'll never get." As well as Twitter about "Nice guys finish last," "Girls that date douchebags and then bitch about it - you're dumb." "You want a nice guy, look in the friendzone."

Anytime I write something hinting towards dating another guy and it didn't work out - he writes really judgmental, rude subtweets about my love life. He subtweets so obviously calling me dumb, just because he's bitter I don't like him. He's even been ballsy enough to reply to my tweets basically arguging with me that I obviously don't want a nice guy since I didn't pick him. He's really blunt so I put him in in his place saying just because someone doesn't like you, doesn't mean its a part of life getting not picked.

When he constantly writes the things about "check your friendzone" reality is he isn't even one of my friends - he isn't even in the ranking for potential guys to date!!! It's infuriating that he doesn't shut up.

How do I make this guy shut up and mind his business!?

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10-01-2012, 03:28 PM
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You need to write him a clear answer saying that you don't like him and want him to disapear from your life.
Simple as that Smile

Help me please:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...940AAJutvk

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10-01-2012, 03:28 PM
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Hmm...As the creepy stalker guy in my own right I have been thinking about this one.

I know what would have chased me away.

Stampede or charge him away. You have to confront him directly and always in a public place.
Draw him a picture and put circles within circles then dot each boy you date within that you have dated the ones you would have married as the inner most circles, and the lower quality guys farther out then friend zone guys you might have dated. Then a circle for weirdo stalkers and put him and any other stalkers in it.

Now if you wish it to end shame his man card if he is a man. Say that there has never been a proper initiation to what he seems to want which is to date you. No sweet hellos, flowers, chocolates, movie dinner dates. Just him watching, and making cruel comments about things that are none of his business. Not really adding any value to your life as a friend, or even a agreeable acquaintance. Tell him that is a very poor way to get attention.
Tell him if he is really that caught up on you to let one week pass and then ask you out on a date in the proper way. Explain this is not a yes or even a maybe. That his behavior has hurt his chances. And the delivery of the request for a date must be better than perfect, and even then he may still get a no.

After all this if you want to have anything to do with him you will contact him not the other way around.
And he is to stop stalking/crushing on you. Then if he is a crazy fool that will not leave you alone block his accounts and delete any comments he makes.

Again you asked how to get him to leave you alone. In high school if any of the girls I like had done this I may have ran away. Conditions in my home life made it impossible to date. So the friend zone was all I could ever hope for.

He may be more complex than you think and a nice enough guy to date.
But then again he may just be another creep and he needs to be confronted any way you look at it.
There may be some danger or risk in meeting him alone so take a quite girl friend with you. Someone over 200lbs that can handle herself.
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