I just need some relationship advice? FROM ANYONE? I'm sorry wrong category...? Please and thankyou!?
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10-01-2012, 03:26 PM
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I just need some relationship advice? FROM ANYONE? I'm sorry wrong category...? Please and thankyou!?
I'm in a long distance relationship with a guy I have known for 2 years... last year he saw an account I had with guys and I don't even remember it; he broke up with me for it. Apparently I called one of them (Don't remember)...
Anyway now we've been going good since May... But yesterday he wrote to his ex-girlfriend.. asking her how many guys she has done IT with (sex). She's like, "hahaha 2. You (my bf) and.."Eric") sooo I'm guessing she lost her virginity to him. My bf. Then he's like "Why did you leave me? Cause I didn't give you an orgasm?" (apparently that was a "joke") "Was he better than me?" (That's a "joke" too). And I got so upset! He sent her messages making her laugh... all out of spite for something I don't even remember doing. Then I check her twitter and she said.."After all these years I love the fact my ex still loves and supports me...rahrahrhrahrah" Eeeh he was meant to come and live with me. But Now I'm just like, sooo hurt! IM SO HURT! I don't even want to talk to him for like a week. I don't know what to do!! What would YOU do? Breaking up... that's my last resort... I want to get him back sooo bad!! Wtf should I do... please... I need help =[ WTF DO I DO Ads |
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10-01-2012, 03:34 PM
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Keep calm and give it time. My bet is, he really was joking, but of course i'd keep a second guess pending. Even if it's spite, which i think it's not, it'll fade soon enough. Men being in good terms with old girlfriends, although not the usual case, is not unheard of (or surprising), especially if he was friends with her before. I'd show some (SUBTLE, can't stress that part enough) curiosity about her, NOTHING HINTING TO JEALOUSY. That might give you some understanding to the whole case, and perhaps hint him to you being worried (although that is not the intention). A good question might be whether he was friends with her before.
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10-01-2012, 03:34 PM
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I couldn't be with someone who jokes with other women like that. I think you should reconsider long distance relationships since you cannot physically spend time with the person or his friends. This is a classic example of that. I say leave it as friends and meet other people. Let him do his little corny flirting with his ex all he wants to.
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10-01-2012, 03:34 PM
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If my long distance boyfriend did that, it'd be over. I love him and I know he'd never do that, but in your case, break up with him. If you don't do it now, you'll regret it later. Get it over with now. He is a dirty liar and even if it was a joke, that is not something to joke about, especially when he's with you. What he did to you is awful and no one deserves that. A long distance relationship requires a lot of trust and there's no way he deserves your trust after that. He will cheat on you sooner or later if you don't end it now. You can do so much better.
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10-01-2012, 03:34 PM
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First of all, this relationship isnt in the "living together" stage.
The whole situation is too immature. He's game playing and youre wanting to. Without trust..you have nothing. Nothing. If you cant trust the person who loves you ..then who can you trust. You dont have a solid enough bond to take it to the next level. Talking to his ex about her sex life, on a public forum...is immature and borderline cheating. If he did it, because he knows you'll see it--thats even worse. Thats intentional hurt...and mean spirited You dont have to break up.. this is self destructing. The bond has been broken.. like I said. Without trust, you have nothing |
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