Should I unfriend my friends on facebook?

[di12381]

I joined an organization a few years ago. I made friends, both with the leadership and my fellow members. I have recently come to the conclusion that these people are not my friends and have been lying to me.

We had a major event recently where I made some suggestions. I don't mind being told that my suggestions are not feasible, nor do I mind being told that they need to think about them. What I do mind and what hurts me deeply is being ignored, the only answer being silence.

I told the leaders that I wanted to host an event in my home. I am well aware of the time it takes to get to where I live, however, there are several major transportation hubs that will get people to where I live in a short amount of time. I did as they asked and checked for train problems for the date I mentioned. Again no answer.

There was an event this weekend with this group. I initially said I was going, but after seeing the emails that they ignored my request to host, I ignored their emails requesting a final RSVP. On the day of the event, having not responded, I waited for a message confirming my attendance. Still none.

I am beyond mad right. I feel very hurt and disrespected. I do not seek a leadership role, but I need to know that my opinions and membership is valued, which I feel it isnt. I am only human and make mistakes, but I am also hurting. Many of these people are my friends on facebook. Should unfriend them and be done with it?

[Bossycarl]

Yell, "I AM TIRED OF YOU DUMB PEOPLE IGNORING ME. I NEED YOU TO LISTEN TO ME WHEN I SPEAK!" Then louder, "UNDERSTAND?" when they are all around.

If you can't bring yourself to do that, then yes unfriend them.

[ideaquest]

It's normal to feel hurt from being ignored. However, it is more important to try to understand the reasons for your friends behavior. Is there a way for you to clarity with some of them who you deem is closer to you? They may offer some reasons and these reasons may provide you with a better insight into the issue. Take the whole exercise as a learning experience to learn more about yourself and your friends. Whether to unfriend your facebook friends, is entirely up to you. But know that you will be sending a signal to them. Let yourself cool off for a few days before making a decision.

[Miss Princess]

Yes, delete them.