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My dad is sending sexy messages to this woman?
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My dad is sending sexy messages to this woman?
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My dad is sending sexy messages to this woman?
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11-09-2012, 10:35 AM
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My dad is sending sexy messages to this woman?
im a 13 year old girl living with my 2 married parents
when my dad was in the shower i looked on his phone and there were loads of messages(on his facebook)he sent to women like"love u babes xxx" and "i want the best for you xx" and "i will always find a place for you in my heart xxx".i was so shock i couldnt read more.i know it was wrong of me to look at his messages but.... when i was little my dad cheated on my mum and they separeted.i was really horrible because my mum went into a deopression(shes bipolar)and she had to go to hospital. after a year they got back together and now,im 13,and i find out he doing it again! i really dont wanna tell my mum and i dont have any family in this country! WHAT SHOULD I DO??!please help P.s.i took pics of the messagrs(they're in my secret folder on my phone)so i have proof. no answers like "stop snooping around your dad's phone!" or "this is an adult thing" also its not family or good friend because i looked at her profile and its a woman in her twenties that live in the same town as us!(weve only been living her 3 years!) how could i blackmail him? Ads |
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11-09-2012, 10:44 AM
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Don't blackmail him. Tell him his phone went off and you accidentally looked at it, and saw that he had been talking to other girls.
Tell him that it hurts you that he's doing this. If he is any type of father, he will understand, apologize, and hopefully stop talking to other women. Ads |
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11-09-2012, 10:44 AM
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If it was my father, first of all, I would've taken him out to lunch somewhere so we could talk privately. Then, I'd tell him how I was feeling and what I was thinking about him cheating. I'd ask him to stop it. If he doesn't then I would suggest getting counceling. Wish I could help you more.
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11-09-2012, 10:44 AM
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tell your mum to lose some weight her bum looks too big. also she needs to stop running her mouth all the time and inventing problems when there are none. men always think with their dicks its where the main control center is located.
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11-09-2012, 10:44 AM
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Well you can't blackmail him into doing anything because unless its for money it will never work, but honesty is the best policy and your mom has to know what your dad is doing; it'll be painful but its only fair, you and your mom don't deserve this treatment, and tell your mom to be stronger than last time and to make sure its the last time with your dad that this happens
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11-09-2012, 10:44 AM
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Honestly, you shouldn't be looking through his texts. But now that you've figured it out that he is cheating, yes you need to show the texts to your mother. It might be hard for her and they might divorce but she has a right to know. After you tell her, keep your nose in your own business from now on. Let your mom handle her life and you deal with yours. Good luck.
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11-09-2012, 10:44 AM
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You must have asked this "question" in one form or another about 157 times already.
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11-09-2012, 10:44 AM
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Ask him and tell him what he's doing is wrong
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11-09-2012, 10:44 AM
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No don't blackmail him.. How can you blackmail your own Father.. Just tell him that you know that he is cheating your mother.
Tell him that if it happens again then u will inform your mother and other family members about the affair..tell him to give u a promise.. Just don't spoil your mother's life by telling her anything about your father.. Don't Complicate the things,try to Solve them as simply as u can....... |
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