parents falling out at the school gates!!! help!!?

[Nikki H]

my son is now in reception but he was in the same nursey school last year. Myself and a few others had made friends and spend weekends and school holidays together doing various activities. We all took part in bitching about each other a little and now all has gone wrong.
One of the mums said she couldnt sleep at night and so i went to her house and said maybe we have all said a bit too much and now its impacting on our lives, she thanked me and we moved on for that day anyways
the others didnt seem pleased that i did this and the 3 of them have now started ganging up with evil looks, deleting me off facebook, ignoring me ect.
Im aware this sounds pathetic, and i wish i hadnt been involved. but it has happened, so i am here now panacking about the school run, dropping off and picking up...... i feel really anxious and am considering moving my son to another school....but then i think why should he go through with this. what should i do? has anyone else had a similar situation?
ive tried talking but that got me to be public enemy number 1.....any advice would be great!!

[LiquidPeppermint]

What are you, eleven years old? Grow up and act like an adult. You have a child to think about.

[Spike X]

Good grief, what a bunch of high school bullsh*t. Stories like this prove that the people who say women would make better leaders because they aren't aggressive and always get along are full of sh*t.

[Jenny]

There is only one thing that you can do: Pretend that you don't notice the "evil looks" and ignore everything. Say "hello" when you pass the women and leave it at that.

It's a sad sign of our times that hardly anybody seems to be capable anymore to resolve conflicts without causing drama. It's like most people need to bring the drama that they see on reality TV into their own lives. Maybe they think that it's the things are supposed to be? I am sorry that you lost your friends but considering how they are behaving now, I am not sure if they ever really were your friends to begin with.

[Y]

This type of behavior is increasing within our society and increasing in the age groups that it is happening in. It's like many never leave the high school drama mentality any more. All you can do is keep out of the gossip. If any of them try sucking you in simply state that you don't want to hear about it. Eventually they will come around to your way or they will continue to gossip about you. Either way is going to suck for quite a while.

[cjsmummy]

I am in the same situation.I have spoken to the class teacher and head teacher.Being honest,neither actually care.I was thinking of writing to the school governors and asking them to remove her son from the school.However,I have decided to move my son and I am currently waiting for the transfer to come through.I am upset and angry that a classless tart can't deal with the fact that my son attends the same school as hers - my son got his place first,and she has actively encouraged her son to bully mine.My situation may differ though as this troll has called Social Services on me twice in the first half of term (the second time with some extremely serious and very disgusting allegations that have obviously been proven false).This cow has abused me for 3 years though,and even a talking to from the police hasn't changed matters,she is still abusing me,along with the so called friend who persuaded me to send my son to the school in the first place.I agree,it's a high school mentality.The pair of them have serious issues.Anyway,talk to the teachers,they can talk to these women.If that doesn't solve things,then you have 2 choices - either ignore them completely (seriously,don't engage with them at all,no matter what they say) or move your son.It's horrible,I know,but your son will be fine,especially at this age