Am I missing something (Long question but summary/example at bottom)?

[Jason]

Background: Based on observation, I think I am attractive. I am only 5'4" ish, but I have blue eyes and am physically in good shape. I get looks from a lot of girls, but I don't seem to ever like them back. The girls I do like don't seem to like me back. Also I am nice and get good grades. Sophomore in college.

I just started getting into the dating scene this year. I never dated in high school. Nerdy type.

1. The only two girls I have legitimately liked were coincidentally both of Indian descent (American but Indian parents). With both of them, we really hit if off, but then when I asked to get out to eat or something, they just want to be friends. Is this common among Indian girls or just classier ones?

2. Also, any girl I know who I have any remote interest in always seems to never contact me. The most recent girl and I are friends, and we see each other around and wave/say hello, but she was busy multiple times when I suggested we just go out to eat.

Am I missing something or just unlucky? Do the girls like me but just aren't ready for any type of dating? Maybe they are just looking for bad boys? I don't know. It's all so confusing to try to pick up independent and strong girls.

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Example: One of the girls had no games liked at all on Facebook. I liked Mario Kart on my profile. A few days later, she liked Mario Kart completely out of the blue. She also even told me "You are interesting". However, she then said she is "unnaturally friendly". I felt terrible when she rejected me. She even said multiple times she was busy when I suggested we eat together.
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TL;DR
I just feel so sad. There are these pretty, smart, funny girls that are so great. They get so much attention but are still ethical and nice people. I just can't seem to forge any type of relationship even though I think I am the kind of guy they'd like.

Do college girls just not want to date or something? I mean I am very understanding. At the very list I'd like honesty instead of passive aggression.

[Pestywing878]

Hey!

Answer 1: It's common in Indian girls because it's hard to get them and they are really serious about their relationship. Hardly any of them dates because of experience and pleasure. Also, their parents are protective towards them, their parents cannot just see their girls breaking down, getting diseases as well as other serious problems like those. Most importantly, they are extremely hard to get and is serious about their relationship, most of them are.

Answer 2: There is nothing to be "unlucky" off. You perhaps are just moving towards the wrong person. When you are meant for someone, they will automatically accept you and you will know that she is the right person. I wouldn't suggest you to go pick out girls out of the crowd. Be yourself and spend time with girls be friends with them and eventually you will find out who is the right person for yourself. If you keep looking desperately then you will end up with the wrong girl.

When you are in college, many girls are looking for serious relationship they want to be with the person they will spend their life with. They don't look for "dates" but they look for "lifetime partners" I suggest you to get to know the girl first and be very good friends before approaching to them like that. It seems like you are approaching each girls too fast and too quickly.

Good luck!

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