I need some advice!!! Pretty sure this guy I've been talking to has a girlfriend..what do I do?

[Laurennnn =]]

Me & this guy have been talking for about 3 weeks now. He's really sweet, and reserved, I went to high school with him and he was kind of an outcast. He wasn't picked on or anything like that but he wasn't like the rest of the kids going to parties and getting trashed and stuff, he pretty much kept to himself and I always admired that. We ran into each other on the subway a while ago and had a really good convo and exchanged numbers, we've been texting and talking on the phone ever since and last week he admitted he liked me and we even talk about being together sometimes. He told me he didn't have a girlfriend or anything of the sort quite a few times too..I've really grown to like him so I decided to do some snooping on his Facebook since I was bored. He doesn't update his status very much but I found a girl who commented somethin on one of his statuses that I didn't understand. But I saw her repeatedly like his stuff and comment so I figured to myself hmm..I checked her profile out and they go to school together, she doesnt really update her statuses either her page was mostly instagram stuff but one of her statuses mentioned his name, and bother one that referred to him as "he", which he liked, and stuff like that. They were all romanticish statuses, like "I miss him" and "I wish he was here to cuddle with Me" etc. weirdly enough he never responded to her statuses or even her comments on his (at least that i could see) the only one he openly replied to was the one she tagged him in. Then what made me think they were together was a girl (mutual friend) posted on her wall asking how shes been and she replied just busy with school and with my bf. i didnt see any other guy she tagged or anything. & I know it's creepy and I hate to look like a stalker but I've been done really shady in the past. I really just wanted to make sure he wasn't too good to be true...does it sound like it looks? If so how do I approach this?

[bird681]

Hey!

From the description you gave above, I would say that he is cheating on you and that girl and is using you both. It does sound what it sounds like. You should just ask straight up in a calm and nice manner. Ask something like "Who is this and why she is posting this and that" Or anything like that. Another thing you could do is talk to that girl on Facebook and ask her about her boyfriend name then confront him. Make sure that girl's boyfriend is yours before confronting him.

Good luck!

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