Help!!!! Best friend problems?!!! ?

[Tiffany]

So we were talking on the phone at it was getting late so she said "I'll just talk to you through twitter" ok so then we started talking and then she starts yelling at me like "You Bi***!!! do you relize that i read all of your tweets about me????" And she just keeps saying things like that and when she was done i said " what? The last thing i said about you was like 5 months ago..." and then i just tweeted "notice how i stay calm" then like 10 min later shes like "The only reason you stay calm is beacuse you the one who is a Bi*** and then makes me deal with you" so i said "It takes to people to fight" and that didnt make a difference to her so she just kept going on through the night and rambleing on ... And i tweeted "i hate being alone, i wish she would talk to me instead of blame and yell at me." So she said "good luck on the first day of school when your alone:-)" So i started Crying turned of my phone and went to bed... we've been friends for 4 years and every time we fight she never tells my why exactly shes mad... i love her to death but she never wants to talk it out she just waits for me to apoligize... so i want to think of shomething to say that will make her relize she is being over dramatic and mean... thanks

[Francine]

oh my god, this is exactly like me and my best friend!! when we argue she always ignores me when i try to talk it through with her and always waits for me to apolognise even though i wasnt the one that did anything wrong, i completely know how you feel about this and it is really annoying:/ i always like to sort things out and talk it through, for some reason she doesnt, anyways about the twitter thing was all the tweets from 5 months ago?, if so then why is she dragging it all up now i personally think she went off the phone to you cause she was feeling like an arguement and wanted to start it over twitter, i know that sounds mean but thats how it comes across, she should have stayed on the phone to you!! i think you shouldnt have tweeted things about her while you were arguing though cause thats just made her feel even angrier and worse but still she shouldnt have brought something up that was from the past. I think you should just leave her for a couple of days and let her cool down then contact her in some sort of way and tell her that your sick of her always ignoring you and always blaming you and waiting for you to apolognise cause if she really loved you as a bestfriend she wouldnt find it so easy to make you feel bad about yourself) i hope i helped x