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10 points to best answer + answering your questions! Like him/move on?!?
11-09-2012, 10:39 AM
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10 points to best answer + answering your questions! Like him/move on?!?
I feel like I've liked this guy (lets call him Christian) forever, and nothing's ever gonna happen. He's my neighbor and I'm friends with his older sister, and we've had a few flirty banters.
He is a year younger than me but idk he's friendly and can be really sweet and cute and stuff, but I know one of his best friends doesn't like me and I feel like he'd side with his friends over me.

Idk, my friends and I were sure he liked me before but now I'm not so sure, But here's a little overview of our "flirtationship:" (from oldest to newest)

-Drank half a coke. Didn't want the rest, offered everybody in the group it, Christian took it & drank the rest.

-Told him my birthday a few years ago. He still remembers it to this day, but didn't even bother wishing me a happy birthday on Facebook or in person (hung out with his sister that day and saw him for a while)

-Messaged me from a seperate Facebook account trying to make me guess who it was. he called me pretty twice through these Facebook messages

-Messaged me randomly on Fb on valentines day asking why I'm up so late & told me to go to bed

-hung out in a group at night. We were playing this game sort of similar to hide and seek and i was walking around, looking for somewhere to hide. He was following me and we were talking through the entire night. When I went home afterwards, he texted me and I didn't have his number saved so I spent some time guessing who it was and finally I guessed and we talked for a while more

-so recently I changed my status on Facebook to married (as an inside joke with a friend), and he commented and was like "what?! Whoo? Noooo!" And then again saying, "not that I care or anything" and then another time recently I posted a picture of my guy friends shirt and Christian commercial saying mean stuff to my guy friend and like bashing him left and right..

That's all the major stuff.. Haha. In depth answers are appreciated! I will answer your questions as well.. Just leave the link! (:

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11-09-2012, 10:48 AM
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I think he does like you, but I also think you should try moving on. Not moving on entirely, but try focusing on other guys as well. Whenever you feel like it's not a for sure thing with someone then try focusing on others and give that person the space to figure out his feelings. He seems to like you but it sounds to me as if he's not sure if he should show his feelings. Like I said give him some distance and occupy yourself with other friends. Make him miss you. With time, he'll come looking for you.

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11-09-2012, 10:48 AM
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He likes you. For some reason he won't tell you. I'm guessing it has something to do with his friend that doesn't like you. If that's the case then he's too much of a punk to stand up for what he believes in. you don't want a man like that because he won't protect you when the chips are down. But if you really like him, then stand up for what YOU believe in and tell him how you feel. If he sees that you are willing to step out on the ledge for him, he may do the same for you. That's only if you think he's worth it. From what I read, I don't think he is, and I think that you can do better than to be with a guy who's too afraid to tell his friend that he's into you. Just a guy on the outside looking in.
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