I still wanna be her Friend?

[Super]

I asked a girl for her number she said sure and her face turned reddish and she was flustered as she gave it to me. I called and asked her to dinner...she calls back and says not one on one or dinner but I like hanging out with you and talking with you but just with sisters or a small group and as friends.
Ok so I called once to respond a little got voice mail...so I waited 1 month and text her saying I'll totally honor and respect you and your feelings on that. "That" being hanging out as friends...then I text her inviting her and her sister to lunch the next day. No response...not a big deal for me either.

3 days later she takes me off her facebook friends list!! Wow I was so shocked...it's like she skipped all the steps of problem solving and did a drive by blowing up the whole place. So I'm kinda confused and never thought she was like this...we've been friends for almost a year now. I guess she has no respect for me to tell me what's going on. What was she trying to say by taking me off her friends list..?? Her two sisters still have me on theirs. I thought I said something nice and thoughtful to her...and she's the one who said she liked hanging out and talking with me(pretty strongly stated btw) not me...I just did what I thought she wanted.

Girls it's actually worse when you ignore guys...just be up front with them. Whoever came up with that is an idiot...."ok I don't wanna hurt his feelings so I'll ignore him"...Brilliant ( sarcasm).
Might hurt a little, but no where as bad as being ignored...that's just rude and cruel.

So what should I think of this so called "friend". She must hate me is that what she's trying to say? Is she just mad...I'm fine with being friends with her, I said that...whatelse does she want me to say?

*****IM NOT ASKING IF SHE'S INTO ME OR NOT******

[Honeybee]

Give her some space. It may not be you it may just be her. And yes I know that sounded cliche. I've done this to a guy before and not on purpose. Maybe she is shy and is nervous about things getting serious. A few years ago when guys, yes even a good guy friend, told me they liked me or tried to take things farther, I freaked. Although I looked completely normal on the outsidd I was dealing with major emotional turmoil at the time. Real bad self esteem issues. When a guy said he liked me it made me worry.and distance myself from them because I didn't want them to get to know the real me and realize they didn't like me anymore. With all of this said, I just wanted to let you know that you don't know what people are dealing with. Don't be mad. Her actions do seem weird. Maybe try real easily to be friends with her again or start talking to her but don't start on strong.