Girls: Is it all just a joke?

[Bob]

I'll keep this short, we met in college, we talk quite alot, we also flirt quite alot, she thinks i'm "hilarious" and that I "Make her day", she touches my leg whenever she talks to me, she pushes her body into me when shes standing next to me, she smiles every time she sees me, she giggles whenever I compliment her and she talks about me to her friends.

She hasn't done anything that makes me think that she may not like me, except last week she popped up to me on facebook saying she really liked me, I then replied saying that I like her too although I thought I made it pretty obvious enough without saying it, then she replied about 3 hours later saying it wasn't her who said it, and that it was a boy, the boy she said that said this to me she said was her boyfriend too, but her relationship status on facebook is still single, and I talked to her on facebook again not long ago and she acted like it never happened?

I went back to college today, I wasn't embarrassed about it or anything, or worried, and she actually seemed happier to see me, we didn't really talk much as we only had one lesson together and in that lesson we only had about 10 minutes to talk but she hasn't changed except from the fact that she seems like she wants me there. All in all I just want to know who said all that, and if she really does like me, shes the only girl that has shown any interest in me when i've flirted with her and shown I like her. I'm not sure if I just have a 'heart of stone' after being turned down by so many, or if I actually don't like her that much but, if she said no and she didn't like me, I actually don't think I would care, as cold hearted that sounds.

So was it all a joke? I'm going to ask her when I get the time to anyway, I just want to other peoples opinions on what I should expect to hear.

[Catherine]

As I read that, I was thinking definitely she fancies you then you said about the boyfriend thing. My thoughts are that she doesn't have a boyfriend, as why would her "boyfriend" tell another guy his "girlfriend" really likes him. I think it was either herself, or her friend, and the wrote it to you, to see how you'd respond. Maybe she was trying to make you jealous, to make her a seem "in demand" and you have to "work" to get her. Definitely speak to her about it, just be casual and ask what was all that Facebook chat about. That's the only way you'll ind out. But I do think she likes you considering her body language etc!

[Joy]

I don't know. I think you should just move on to someone else. I'm a girl and even this girl is hurting my head.