My friends aren't inviting me!?

[Jenna]

So we all used to hang out in a group with all girls about 10 of us or so. And these are not all my best friends but my "group". Then about a month ago, they invited me to go to the school football game. I said that I couldn't bc I had phisical theropy, which I did. Then the next night, i was completely free. I figured Out that from Facebook, they all hung out. I wasnt really that upset - I figured 1 time , it's fine. So then about a week later, it was my best friends birthday Nd we had a lot of fun all of us! I didn't bother asking and after that night, I thought that everything was ok. 2 days later, I had homecoming and we had fun and went back to my friends house after too. Okay, so about a week later, we took the PSAT and one of my friends asked me what I was doing later, and I had a family party. I asked her, and she said I'm not sure yet. Later. I found out that they all hung out, but I figured and hoped that my friend told them I was busy. Okay, then 2 days later, I sat home and did nothing and found pics of them on Facebook from the night. I was starting to feel a but left out. But the other day, I was at a club with 2 of my friends. One of them waS suppost to bring me home. The other said, to my other friend if she wanted to go over her house (low) but right in front of me! I realized that they haven't been telling me things lately and I went home crying and here I am now. I'm just feeling that I'm losing everything that I had that used to be fine and now had completely fallen apart . I hate it! This was all I thought about ! it hurts
I dint think i feel comfortable just telling them how I feel too.
- kasey.
Thanks

[CHANCE]

the less people you know the less drama. your "friends" are clowns and busters and floozies.

[Kayjay39]

Hey sweetie, don't worry about it. This is pretty normal and happens alot. You have to take the initiave though inorder to get back into your group. Text some of them up next weekend and ask them what they're doing that night, and then get invited. I'm sure they miss you but think you're busy. But anyway text them first, and even maybe ask them about it. Tell them you miss them and you wanna hang out more but you've been so busy. Sometimes things don't work out the way they're suppose to. Maybe even try finding some new people to hang out with. I know it's hard, but it's also part of life. This has happened to me, a couple of times, and in the end it's all worked out.
Best of luck!

[Kaylaa]

I've had this same problem before... Maybe ask one of ur friends if there leaving u out on purpose. Or ask if there mad at u. If they say there not then just ask them why u all don't hang out together anymore.. Hope this helps?

[J Grant]

I feel like I'm in this predicament a lot. My friends plan things without me, and sometimes even talk about it infront of me. It sucks.

Maybe you can come up with an idea to hang out, and include everyone, and then they'll try to include you in the future. It's a good sign that they at least occasionally ask you what you're doing.

In time, it may be best to tell them how you feel. That may be the route I go with my similar issue.