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I want revenge, someone help?
11-09-2012, 10:43 AM
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I want revenge, someone help?
Im 13 and I got involved with a club. The club is for "community involvements" and for helping the public. Well I quit that group because of reasons:
1. They won't accept my belief in religion
2. They talk about me when I'm not there
3. They created drama on me (They said I had no right to make an email and it blew up over Facebook. Even though I had every right to make an email for the group because they told me could)
4. The adults are mean, don't care about children.
5. Almost everyone in it was a misfit
6. They all hate me because I like the color yellow
7 My political views are wrong.
8. There was never once any help to the community
9. Nothing ever happened (everything got postponed, then forgot about.)

Now that I quit they spend their meetings talking bad about my beliefs and me for like an hour.
Someone help me, I want to tear their group apart, how do I do that? (Don't convince me not to.)

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11-09-2012, 10:52 AM
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11-09-2012, 10:52 AM
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Your question is understandable, and only a person who has "been there" can really relate. Many clubs and organizations are great groups of people who gather to do exactly what they say that they will -- help others, support the community, improve living conditions, enrich the members' lives, and all the good stuff which clubs are supposed to be about. But once in awhile, you run into one like the one you stumbled into. I know what it feels like. You've done the right thing by getting out and going your own way. Now, here's the tough part. You said in your question, "Don't try to convince me not to tear their group apart." But that's like someone telling you, "I'm going to swallow poison. Don't convince me not to." If you're the good person I think you are, you wouldn't pay any attention, would you? You'd immediately tell him "Don't drink it!!" Well, that's the message I have for you. Your time and energy spent trying to "tear the group apart" is much better spent making your own life better. Focus on other groups you already belong to, or find other clubs which share your interests and join them. Every time you spend even one minute thinking about the empty-heads you were dealing with in your former club, you generate some additional anger. And who feels it?? Not them. It is you who suffer. So put that effort into letting it go, focusing on the future, and making your own life better. One of the little secrets of life is that the best revenge is personal success. They'll be plenty revenged upon when their pettiness, small minds, and bad attitude prove totally unable to interfere with your having a successful, happy life.
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