Should I Just Give Up? Is She Even Interested? Should I Wait?

[Julian]

There's this girl i met last year in college and i never really built up the courage to say anything. The summer after our first year i added her as a friend on Facebook and made terrible flirty comments fishing for one in return.

This year i decided to talk to her and tell her how deeply i feel for her and how much i want to be with her so as a set up i asked her when is she free and if could hang out and she wanted to as well. Stood me up. I felt devastated and her excuse was being tired and falling asleep through our "date." She apologized but then i guilted her by saying how much i was looking forward to it and then poured my feelings out so she could have a better understanding of how i feel and that i didn't mean to make her feel bad. Then she said she "teared up" because nobody has ever been this sweet to her and that she's not good at expressing how she feels. This time she set up the next date and i agreed. I was stood up again, and of course i was broken-hearted and i didn't talk to her for a week not because i was being a big baby but because I wad giving her time to explain why she missed this one and i just sent her "So it's just done and over with like that :/?" She replies like 3 minutes after saying that she has a lot of work and not enough time for a boyfriend and not to say that we're done and over. I said i understand and "I feel a lot better actually because after Friday I just thought it was over and wanted to just end it because I wasn't gonna drive myself crazy anymore, but that's really hard to do when it's someone you're crazy about... I'm glad you're focusing on school work, keep going, I'm behind you 200% of the way... " She didn't reply after that. That was last month and between now and then and even while we were talking it seems like she tries to avoid me and tries anything to not sit with me at breakfast, lunch or dinner unless im next to someone she knows and knows no one else. Only when I sit by her she says hi and leaves shortly after i show up without saying bye.

I really really like her and want to be with her, but if she says she doesn't have time for me what can I do about it? I'm not asking for all of her time, I just want to be with her and knowing that i'm with her is enough... I just want to know what the "F" is going on...

Sorry about the wall text

[Jay]

Sounds like she might be interested in someone else, sorry dude. D:
But hey, who knows, give her some time and space, make her miss you, make her chase you and then you might end up with your girl. (:

[knightpedro]

You need to forget about this one. If she is interested in you for real, you will be able to tell that she likes talking to you. She will be eager to talk to you and to be with you if she likes you. Things like avoidance are a huge red flag that shows she is not interested in you, in fact she probably doesn't even care that much (regardless of what you may think). Actions speak louder than words and texts, whether you like it or not. I suggest you look around at your university and talk to some other girl that is by herself. Meet other girls. Do whatever it takes, but make sure you meet other girls. Once you meet one that likes talking to you and is interested in you, you will forget about one that showed she didn't care in a flash. Trust me. If you don't meet other women and you just continue focused on this one that doesn't like you, you are wasting your time and you won't get the results you want either. You need to focus yourself on one that doesn't show these red flags that say "I don't want you". However, the only way to get to that one is meeting others, so remove the dry one from your schedule and make a schedule where you take care of your stuff and make some time to meet others.
Honestly, it sounds like you are wasting your time on one that won't fall in love with you. Shift your time and your energy to the ones that will like you. Figure out who those are and meet some of those in the university. Don't even bother with the ones that have nothing in common with you or that don't look like they do enjoy talking to you. Remember, you will forget very quickly about this one (who doesn't seem to like you much if at all) when you find one who does like you. So raise your oppotunities of that happening by meeting others that are a much better match for you than this one.

EDIT: Oh and remove that ugly as hell avatar from you profiles lol.. if any girl sees that she will get turned off, no joke.