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Emily · 11-09-2012, 10:56 AM

I'm asking this because I'm really confused about one of my good guy friends.

We're pretty good friends, I'd say he's my best guy friend and I'm his best girl friend. We talk or message almost everyday and always post jokes and things on each others facebook.

All our friends joke around about us hooking up and make fun of us because they think there is something going on between us.

He's such a shy person and not confident with girls at all so it's really hard to tell if he likes me or not?

Saturday night I was hanging out with him in our big group of friends. When I left he messaged me asking if I was going out which I wasn't, but he kept messaging me and quoting songs and things to me. Then at 3am he called me asking me to please pick him up from town..... Which I did. But I just dropped him home, but he stayed in the car for ages chatting to me. Then for a dress up party he's going as the hulk, and he's asked me to please buy him the paint and paint him.

Lately I've found him looking at me more and looking at my boobs alot. If I see him looking at me he looks away straight away

These are just some things which are outside of our normal friendship which I find confusing! So do you think he likes me?

Wayne · 11-09-2012, 11:04 AM

And, what size tree has to fall on you to make you realize he is there. He is shy, so you will have to make the first move, which is ok, if you do it before someone else does

Cheryl · 11-09-2012, 11:04 AM

Absolutely. And I think his lack of confidence is what's holding him back from asking you out. I say, if you feel he does like you in that way, and you are as good as friends as you claim to be, then you should be able to speak to him about it. Many times we miss out on something that can be magical, because we are afraid to lose the "friendship". I guess the question you have to ask yourself is, "Do I like him back?" In which case, all is well. If not, then you should be completely honest and tell him you don't like him in that way, but you want to stay good friends. Good Luck!