Girls: Am I doing the right thing with this girl Is she using me? 10 Points and i'll answer all urs too?

[madman100]

Yeah. So, there is this girl who I think may be using me. I'm not 100% sure though. I met her through a friend about a year ago. From the day I met her, she seemed to have a bit of a soft spot for me. She used to flirt with me a lot of the time etc. She invited me to go and do paper rounds with her. We would sit on a grass bank and she told me one time, after I came back of holiday that her and her boyfriend were arguing while I was away. I asked why, and she said "cause he found out that I kind of like u." I wasn't sure how I felt at the time so I said nothing. I regret it now though!!! :Z

Anyway, like most teen girls, she continued to have a few boyfriends, she would pop up on facebook and post random things like "i'm a ninja don't mess." to my wall. I asked her out about 6 months ago and she said no, soz. She denied saying that she ever liked me and that there were plenty of other fish in the sea for me.!!

Any way we still spoke after that. She poped up on facebook bk in july and asked if I wanted to go out and walk her new puppy with her. I of course said yes.
But then, she gets this new boyfriend. She just seems to drop me. She doesn't bother to pop up on facebook. We have those really short conversations that everyone hates on chat. She liked my photo's and status a lot. Especially the ones to do with love and not saying what u really feel. -(u know the type!!).

Anyway I spoke to my dad, which wasn't a good idea, cause he's a women beater, and I don't really like him. He said this: "oh lad, she's aright slag, shes a cock tease. U don't need people like that in ur life. Shake her off mate. She's just using u 4 attention when her bf isn't around!!"

I didn't take much from this advise casue he's a right dick tbh.
Any way, I decided to try out something. Since she is always hard to get I thought I'd try the game too!! D

Anyway, I started to not be as clingy and desperate and backed off at school. I hanged around with my mates, making sure I was in good view of her and so that she could see that I was happy without her!!

Any way, it kind of worked. She finally got the hint that i'm a bit pissed off!!! I was outside with my mates and she walked past with her 2 friends. I know that it wasn't normal cause she normally hangs inside. My mate shouted over to her and said hi. She shouted hiya back. She walked past and stopped a couple of metres away. I caught her looking over at my group a few times!!!

Then, last lesson today, I was waiting outside my class on my own, and she came over on her own, she looked kind of awkward if u know what I mean!! any way, from what I saw, she looked nervous and like she was kind of was lost and uncomfortable. She leaned against the wall and looked around. We were only about 1 metre away from each other, Me on one wall, her on the other. She didn't say anything anyway. She also doesn't like my statu's anymore or my photos.

She posted on her friends timeline last week, saying, "would you use someone to get at someone u really like??" Her friend said no, it;s kinda tight, why??" She then said, nothing, just wondering!!!

Another day, she also posted to the same friend and said, "why is everyone so moody with me??"
Her friend said, "i'm not, why??" She then said, "doesn't matter! I'll tell u tomoz!!!"

So, i'm sure u can tell that I like her, but i've been doing this ignoring thing since monday now. I want to see if she really likes me enough ti chase me!!!
Are girls stuburn??

If she likes me, will she chase me??
Give your opinions please??!!

10 Points and i'll answer all of your questions!!! Give me all of the links to all of your Open Questions and i'll answer them for u!!!

Thanks.

[Alecia]

She likes you but she doesn't. Its weird.... Maybe she just wants to see how you react and you should so speak to her about it. Tell her its tiring and ask her why she is doing this. Make sure to highlight all the key points you said there. She won't know what to do. She can't tell her friends because she will be embarrassed. So just give it a go!

[Llama]

Maybe...... is she hot? LOL