Why is she doing this to me. Girl giving me attention then rejects.?

[Steve]

So last school year I went on a project with another school (all girls). Over there I meet a girl (me and her are both fifteen now), who I like, and we had friendly conversations with each other during the first few meetings, she even tells me that I have a really powerful voice, that I'd make a good narrator. Then I decided to ask her out, but the day before I did she went into a relationship with another guy. Anyway I asked her out, just as friends, which she agreed to, but after the mid yearly exams.

When the exams finished I messaged her wondering when it would be a good time to meet, but everytime I ask her out she finds an excuse not to go out. Then I notice that she is never online on facebook. So in the next meeting we have with her school, I ignore her, and she walks over and says "How rude of you, you haven't said hello to me today." in a joking tone. So I shrug off the comment and don't continue talking to her, she made it clear after all that she didn't like me from her facebook messages. Anyway, so that day's session finishes, and my friends and I pack up to go back to our school. However I lost a few of my things, so it took me longer to pack up. Then the girl comes along and help me pack up, then carries my bag outside for me, even when I tell her to let me do it. Then as we walk out of her school she runs up to out group and hands one guy some things he had forgotten, running by especially close to me, and goes back to her classroom, she then comes running again to hand another guy somethings he had forgotten, again running close by me as if she is trying to get me to notice her, she does the same thing another 4 times, and I become extremely confused. Wasn't this the girl who just weeks before had turned me down 3 times? Now she's trying to start a conversation with me, helping me with my bag, and even finding an excuse to run by me so I get to notice her. I still had feelings for her, but I made no action (no messages, nothing).

So one time I'm out with my dad, and as he is dropping me off at home, I see the same girl walking down the road infront of my house. I walk up to her and say hello, and she tells me she is going over to the neighbourhood orphanage to help the kids, which coincidentally is really close to my house, not even a minute on foot. So I get into my house and tell my family I'm going to the orphanage and walk over. I ring the doorbell and I ask the nun who answers if the girl is over. She tells me to come in and shows me to the courtyard where the girl and two others are playing with the orphans. I join them, but this time the girl isn't so welcoming, she almost ignores me completely, except for a word here and there. Then after around an hour a nun comes along and tells me that boys aren't allowed then gets angry at the girl for letting me in. I tell this nun that it wasn't her fault, I had come on my accord, and I leave. I get back home and check her facebook, and I realize why I hadn't been seeing her online the whole time, she had un-friended me!

So we have a few more meetings with her school, during which I hardly talk to her. Then summer began and I felt that it was useless to continue wanting her, but I still really liked her. Then in the middle of summer I see her in the clubbing area of our country. She was with a large group of friends, mostly guys. She recognizes me, exclaims my name in surprise and gives me a hug with one arm around my lower back, and her head against my chest. Her mouth was opening to tell me something, but then another guy slaps her ass to get her attention. My sister then drags me away before I get to talk to her.

After a few weeks I check her facebook, and find out she isn't with her boyfriend anymore. Then after around a week passes I send her a friend request. I wait till the next day, but find she hasn't replied to it. I wait another day, but when I check, she still hadn't replied. Now I know she is ignoring me, so I send her message saying "You really are a beautiful girl, and I wish you would give yourself the chance to get to know me better." She ignores me again, so I give up. Now school has satrted again, and I find out we are going back to their school one more time. What should I do? I've been crushing on this girl for almost a year now, and I don't know what to make out of her hot and then cold nature. By the way I am good looking, so that isn't the issue. If you need any additional details such as what kind of friends does she have, how far does she live from me, etc, I would be happy to provide them. Please help.

[David]

If she is ignoring u afer those nice words, then she isnt even worth ur time... If u still have to have her, ask her whats wrong and say you miss talking to her