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What is this girls deal?? Am I just in the friend zone now? Prefer a female opinion. Will answer yours.?
11-09-2012, 11:00 AM
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What is this girls deal?? Am I just in the friend zone now? Prefer a female opinion. Will answer yours.?
So there's this girl I've been talking with (via text, long distance). I really like her, but the problem is I'm not exactly sure if she likes me. She's really shy/doesn't talk very much (in person or over phone/Skype) like me. We met and somewhere and the next day I got a message from her on FaceBook, so she initiated conversation. We text a lot (at least I text her more than I have anyone else). I've told her I liked her and she's said she thinks she likes me and she's not sure she likes me and she tries not to like me and maybe a couple other mixed answers the few times I've asked her. She goes to a new school and still is trying to make new friends, so shes lonely there. I'm not sure whether or not she's talking with me because because she feels alone or genuinely likes me.

She doesn't talk much about herself because she's had some problems when she was younger (and I can't decide if she isn't too trusting of people or just doesn't want to tell me). I ask about her day and she always says the same thing pretty much, nothing happened. She's really hard to talk to because of stuff like that.

I've visited her in person twice now. The first time we sat in her dorm room and then I took her out to the movies for her birthday. The other day we met up again and hung out (hiked) and went to her parents house, watched some TV with her and her family, then watched a scary movie (Insidious if it will help at all). She is pretty wimpy with scary movies, at least she says. We were pretty close during the movie and the further through the closer she got until she was holding on to my arm and hugging it the last thirty minutes or so. The movie finished and we played a board game (she got a bit cutesy and also cheated and said it was because I 'made' her watch the movie). I went to leave and she gave me a hug, then told me later to tell her when I got home. When I inquired about it she said I was nothing special and she does this for everyone. I can't decide if this was genuine or she's too shy/nervous to let me know she cared or why she said something like that.

I'm going under the assumption that she doesn't like me like I like her and I'm in the friend zone now. Sorry for this being so long but I wanted to TRY and get a fairly accurate description of what this girl is doing.

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11-09-2012, 11:08 AM
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Wow. I'm a girl and that first paragraph sounded like me+ a guy I text long distance, and I would love it if he just surprised me and asked me out! HonestlySmile

Answer mine plzSmile

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11-09-2012, 11:08 AM
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I think she likes you. It sounds like it a lot.
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11-09-2012, 11:08 AM
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Im 37 and have had a few relationships and in my younger years 20's played a few games with boys,.....so id say to you flat out............SHE'S KEEPING YOU ON THE BACK BURNER UNTIL SHE GETS AND FINDS WHAT SHE REALLY WANTS. Sounds to me that if you were a jerk, she'd give you more attention, or if you didn't let on that you liked her so much she'd be more in to you. girls can act shy but in reality......BULLSH*T! GAMES!!!!.....Let her go bro, time to give attention to someone who both wants it and DESERVES it!!!
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