PLEASE Please !!! help me with my confusing ex boyfriend?

[Jenna]

My ex boyfriend, he broke up with me on Monday, After us dating for a week, he said he loved me and a bunch of stuff , he was the one that begged me to date him, suddenly after we made out one lunch, he said over text " i think its over sorry...” i asked why, He said it was because he doesnt like me anymore, But at lunch he said he loved me? Then i kept asking why, he said its because his friends dont like me, but that we could still be friends with benefits, that we could still make out, have sex, go on dates, etc. Today we even planned on going to the movies next week and then having sex after wards.. but, the thing is, he told this girl who's kinda my friend that he likes her, and that he doesnt like me. Also he started talking to me on facebook having a good convo then all of a sudden he started reading my messages asking if he was going to school tomorrow and just ignored them(he said we'd have oral the next time he went to school) sooo does he like me or not, and whats going on? Am i gonna get to do that oral sex with him, am i gonna get to actually have s*x with him? I have a lot of feelings for him... im kinda confused? i just want an opinion. Thanks

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Ont do it. He is using u for your body.

[charls]

Keep the fuck away from this ass hole. There's nothing confusing about it. Your a sex toy to him. I hope you didn't lose your virginity to this asshole.

[abbeycoolit]

Yes you are indeed confused but I do not understand why.To cut to the chase,this guy has told you that he only wants to be friends with benefit with you. To prove that point ,he is talking to another gal and saying he does not like you.He likes you but only as a sexual partner which is what friends with benefits means and you apparently do not have an issue with that since you say that you have a lot of feelings for him.I can not again figure out why you have feelings for a guy who says that you are only good as a sex toy and nothing more,not as a gal he can be a couple with.You do not have to do anything with him that you do not want to do whether it is oral sex or any kind of sex ;however,you have indicated that you will not mind having a sex only relationship with him so I guess you have to have oral sex with him or have actual sex with him.