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How do i deal with my infatuation? How do i tell her?
11-09-2012, 11:07 AM
Post: #1
How do i deal with my infatuation? How do i tell her?
there's a girl i met this summer and have become friends with. she's a freshman and i'm a senior, we were both in a musical together this summer and made friends with other cast members. on occasion a group of us have gotten together to hang out. i keep noticing that each time i see her i like her more and more. I've liked her pretty much since right after the show ended, because then she wasn't always around. I wanted to ask her out a few weeks ago (the last time i saw her) but never took a chance. I just feel so stupid that i can't do it. every time she puts up a picture of herself on facebook i am just stunned at how beautiful she is. I'm not a stalker or anything, i know her personally i just love seeing her and how beautiful she is. I need help, i don't want to just be a lonely creep who stares at pictures of her, i want to have the courage to ask her out. now my intentions are completely pure, i'm not after sex or anything, just a healthy and happy relationship. i don't want people to take my feelings for her the wrong way, especially her which is why i'm so shy when we chat on facebook, because i don't want to go off about "Oh you're the most beautiful girl ever" or "You are so perfect in every way" because it's creepy. i do feel that way though and a beautiful and sweet girl like her deserves to have someone who treats her like a princess. geez i'm sorry this is so long i just kinda exploded my feelings here. I just really like this girl and i want to be with her because she's so amazing and everything about her is perfect. Her smile, makes me feel butterflies. Wow that's corny. She really deserves a nice guy, and i like to think that i deserve a nice girl too. I even wrote a love song just because of how i feel. Any advice would be great, thanks

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11-09-2012, 11:15 AM
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Im sorry ,but I love your question!!! This is how my boyfriend and I are, except he is a junior and I'm a sophomore.

What he did was just drop sudell hints he liked me, like one time he said hm, if only u were a junior im pretty sure we'd be closer, but, i don't think the age matters anyway
and then maybe not directly tell her how pretty she is, but just say one day when you see her, like "wow, your (example) your eyes are just so pretty" or just really small things, and then apologize for the "randomness" after you compliment her. And as for asking her out and you not taking her, no big deal!!! just set a for sure date now!!!

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11-09-2012, 11:15 AM
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Dude, ask her out...I know it can be scary but you clearly have intense feelings for her, you can't keep waiting.
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11-09-2012, 11:15 AM
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just ask her out
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11-09-2012, 11:15 AM
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Just ASK HER OUT ALREADY! Most girls are too shy o make the first move, and count on guys to do it for them!
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11-09-2012, 11:15 AM
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ask her out, i'm 90% sure she'll say yes Smile
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