Should I even bother with my crush or just ignore him and move on (please read below)?

[Mara]

There's this guy I really like. Thing is, he doesn't like me. I always thought he did since he's been so flirty with me (but guess that's just his personality). He's all confident, super nice to me, pays for me whenever we hang out, super talkative, considerate, fun, and I never get bored with him. He's been my friend for about a year now, and each time we hang out I fall more in love with him. I am like totally obsessing over this guy!! But the thing is, he doesn't like me back. My friend sent him a text asking whether he likes me...well she asked specifically not that, but if he thinks I'm cute and he thought it was weird to ask. I noticed that since then though he acts like it never happened and never brought it up to me. We hang out a lot at school but now I just don't want to knowing how he feels about me. It's not like he has a gf or anyone, so with the way he acted I always thought he liked me.I felt led on and I hate getting all these mixed signals!!

So do you think I should even bother with this guy anymore (in liking him)...I mean my obsession with him is rly bad like I will go late at night on facebook and see if he's there (it's like stalker-like haha) and go through his page....It's so bad. I think about him like ALL the time...even can't focus in class (and it's even worse now after knowing this!) . But he is like always on that site and talks to me there for like HOURS!!! Seriously he doesn't like me, it sucks :/

I'm thinking that moving on would be best.but you see that's very hard to do, since I keep thinking about him all the time I don't know how. Plus the fact that he's friends with most my close friends that hang out with me and we usually all hang out together in a group at school. I keep bumping into him at school too...and I used to always be happy when I see him but now I just want to avoid him and can't even look at him the same way anymore. It really saddens me. He talks to me like nothing happened, I hate that. Yeah I know it was just a text but still....like I don't want to talk to him if there's "nothing" there and we're just friends...I felt like I put in a lot time for him since I knew him and thought he'd be on the same page as me but I guess some reason I was wrong. And it's like really embarrasing and awkward now...I cant talk to him the same way anymore...I'm like "faking" it, faking the smile on my face. I hate it. I used to love hanging out with him and everything!
So, I'm still confused about what I should do from now on?

What do you all think? I'd really appreciate detailed answers but if not, at least any answer that's helpful will work. Thanks in advance!! 10 points best answer
@Adam: OMG LMFAO!! Your answer was soo hialrious I'm laughing like crazy now...but really did yo even read it, we're not even in a relationship...just "freinds" i guess. OMG this kinda sounds like a "friends with benefits" thing huh??well what YOU were describing...do you think rly thats all he wanted!?? But if so why he dont like me back ?? idk but yeah funnny dude LOL
@Leon: hmmm..you know what you could be right about that. cuz he dont have a gf but super flirty...hmmm maybe he just wants a "no relationship" deal, no strings attached? I didn't even think of it like that!! But he's a super fun guy to be around...maybe a relationship or love isn't something he's looking for in life now...

[Leon]

To me sounds like he is a guy that just likes to have fun. Not everyone wants a relationship these days !!!

[Adam]

owe lord this thing sounds like a broken soap opera. boring. the guy just wants you for a play toy and then when he gets tired of you if your this boring will dump you and move on too his next play toy. your just a fling too him and could care less. as long as he gets his rocks off and who knows who else hes bouncing up down with at a motel six. just dump him hons and move on. this thing is just so long dragged out. you need a serious relationship. not some guy who uses you and then checks his cell phone for his next play toy and runs off too bounce up down at a motel six. hit freeway. fast.

[Jessica]

i think that you should just forget the text. focus on being friends and having fun. if he ever decides he likes you, and you still have those feelings for him, then great! but for now i wouldn't stress about it so much. (: