Is he done with me because he has not texted me in a few days?

[krissyyy]

Okay, I'm gonna make this as short as I can. Met this guy first day of class in college (3 weeks ago), we started talking in class, then texting all day and night, then hanging out with friends and having study groups.

He'd always compliment my looks.outfits.
He always smiles BIG when I look into his eyes when I talk to him.
His friends LOVE me haha.
He teases me 24/7 and we "playfully fight" and "wrestle"

I never have done anything with him, just gave him a hug when he walks me to my car.

His friends have asked me: So what's going on with you and john? Do you guys have a thing? Do you like him? Do you think he's cute? Etc.

He asked me after we hung out one day: Sooo, do you like me yet?
I said: Hmmm idk do you like me yet?
He said: I asked you first
I said: I asked you second
He said: Hmmm then I guess we'll never know

He used to tweet me ALL THE TIME, and retweet everything I said pretty much. And he'd comment/like all my Facebook statuses.

Told me he wants a relationship, and that he doesn't want me to think he's a bad guy because I get hurt a lot.

***I haven't heard from him in like 3/4 days. He made 2 tweets though that I thought might be about me....
1) "If only she knew how I felt about her"
2) Whenever I go for a girl, she never goes for me. It's like cat and mouse games."

EVERYONE thinks they're about me.

So what gives, why is he doing this to me? Did he lose interest? Is there someone new? Is he getting scared that he likes me and I don't like him?

WHAT GIVES!

I texted him first yesterday after I saw those tweets, and he responded fine until he had to go to baseball. But I REFUSE to text him first again, That isn't me, and I want to know that he's interested in me too.

Thanks everyone

[chamorita_chelu42]

Just ask him what's going on. This is what your conversation should be:

You: (be mad) "What's your deal, bro? I thought you kinda at least liked me. I guess not."

Him: "But I...."

You: "What? We hang out and have a great connection then all of a sudden.....BAM. No more you."

Then the ball will be in your court. Don't do this conversation online. Do it with him face-to-face so he has to choice but to answer you instead of ignoring. And good you refusing to text him first again. But do be the mature one and ask if everything is okay, and if so, why he hasn't been keeping in contact. And if he needs help with anything, help him.

[Alanna]

Sounds like he def likes you but is scared and probably frustrated. He's taken a lot of risks by putting his feelings out there and making efforts but you haven't given him much in return. He's probably backing off because of this and he doesn't want to keep pursuing you if you haven't been direct and if he feels like you aren't into him. My advise? Text/call and tell him you miss him, then let him know you that u want him in your life, etc or however u word it and be direct. You've got nothing to lose except him by not telling him

[Ok...]

You are a LIAR. This was NOT short.

When a guy makes himself scarce, 99% of the time, its because he's interested in another girl. Also, you are kind of high drama from what you wrote; you wrote a LOT of detail for only knowing this dude for 3 weeks.... that's a little strange for a girl to be THAT attached, THAT quickly... have you ever considered that he might only be into Asian girls?? And that you arent Asian? Lots of guys are but wont tell you....they will take what a non asian girl is offering up, oh YES they will... but that doesnt mean he is into her at all. Good luck.

[justme]

This is NOT the guys fault! You do not have a good reason to be mad at him and ignore all the girls' opinions becasue they all think the same things you do. Let me tell you how this is and I'm serious. And let me tell you one thing. I had a problem kind of like this with a girl once and it was so much worse because she refused to text me first. She had the problem, not me, and it went unresolved until I had to apolagize even though I wasn't the one who needed to. If you have a problem, you have to bring it up. It's not fair to him to just not bring up your issue and get madder and madder about it. You have to understand that. So ask him what the deal is. You don't have to be mean but get your point across that you don't understand him. His past actions clearly showed that he liked you and he made is best attem? So then when you wouldn't say yes, he figured you were trying to be nice about the fact that you didn't. Don't get me wrong, it's not your fault you didn't understand this but its miscommunications like this that can ruin a relationship. ASK HIM ABOUT IT. BE HONEST AND TELL HIM TO BE HONEST and your problems will solve themselves.

[Gabby Lopez]

he likes you... and i suggest you make a move fast before he leaves