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I don't know what to think of this boy (Please read, kind of long but I have NO idea what to do at all)?
11-09-2012, 11:11 AM
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I don't know what to think of this boy (Please read, kind of long but I have NO idea what to do at all)?
I've known him for a year, we've never really met in person until Saturday.
I'm 16, he's 17.
We started off as a big group of people, myself, him, my best friend and her boyfriend.
Slowly this broke off and my best friend and her boyfriend ended up miles infront of me and this boy.
This boy talked quite abit, which I found unsettling as he told me before on facebook that he was shy around people that he had a crush on.
He kept mumbling to himself, half speaking to me, half speaking to himself and was saying stuff like "If I'm a good guy then I get friend zoned.." I was nervous so I didn't reply much to these remarks.
He kept looking at my best friend and her boyfriend holding hands and at various other couples walking around and then said "I hate seeing couples, it makes me cringe." again, I didn't reply to this.
My best friend and her boyfriend eventually went somewhere else together, leaving me alone with this guy for the rest of the evening. He kept asking me stuff such as "Where do you want to go? It's completely up to you."
As we were walking he said something like "I told my brother I was easy earlier today and he laughed at me, well, I am easy.."
Just before we both split up and went home, we were sat talking on a bench and he said "I don't understand how couples get around to having sex, I wouldn't know how without it being awkward." (He's a virgin, as am I)
When we both decided to go home he said "Come here then." and hugged me, it wasn't a massive hug but it was enough.
We spoke on facebook that night and he asked me when I was next meeting up with him, I said I was available Tuesday and Thursday, for some reason he picked Tuesday even though he's never busy.
What should I think? Does he like me?
Thanks for any answers in advanced, guys. I really appreciate it Smile

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11-09-2012, 11:19 AM
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First of all the guy likes you. He is shy around ppl and he won't make the ole fashion move on you, you have to go out with him on Tuesday and see how it turns out! He seems like a nice guy and I hope he keeps you happy! the guy talks to you bout stuff but maybe he is giving you clues about to hook up with you!
Giv It A Shot!
Gud Luk!

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11-09-2012, 11:19 AM
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He sounds like he's keen but is not confident, is very nervous and not sure how to conduct himself. I think he rambles when he's nervous.

Think about him for a minute, what do you like about him, what do you not like about him?

I'll break down how I would interpret what he said for you;
He kept mumbling to himself, half speaking to me, half speaking to himself and was saying stuff like "If I'm a good guy then I get friend zoned.." - This says to me that he's nervous and wants to be validated. He's desperate to know if you like him, if he's in the friend-zone or not. Obviously he's rushing things but he's anxious.
"I hate seeing couples, it makes me cringe." - He's looking for you to agree with him. Either by criticising a couple or by joining the enemy and becoming a couple.
He kept asking me stuff such as "Where do you want to go? It's completely up to you." - His indecisiveness is really him testing the waters, letting you take the lead because he doesn't know what to do and doesn't want to pick something you wouldn't enjoy.
"I told my brother I was easy earlier today and he laughed at me, well, I am easy.." - I bet that conversation with his brother never happened, he's trying to flirt and drop hints but isn't very good at it.
"I don't understand how couples get around to having sex, I wouldn't know how without it being awkward." - aww that's a fair statement and kinda cute. He probably wants you to initiate or tell him how you think a sexual encounter begins.
"Come here then." and hugged me - He got brave, good on him!
he picked Tuesday - because Tuesday is sooner than Thursday!

I think yes, he does like you but expressing it is not his strong point. How about you, do you like him? Thanks for posting a question that's well expressed and not complete nonsense like most teens on here!
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