Does he like me or am I reading into things..?

[Katie]

Okay, so this guy in the year above at college liked one of my photos on facebook a few weeks ago and the photo was uploaded months before.. My friend said that he must have gone onto my page purposely and liked it, i also put up a new photo recently and he liked it a few days later. Does this mean he likes me or?! He also looks over at me and smiles at me a lot.. I kinda like him although we haven't really spoken.. Should i like one of his photos or will i look stupid? haha I don't know what to do

[Louise]

i think he does like you if he's going to that effort to like a photo, it's kinda the new pig tale pull if you know what i mean

[Cecilia]

I think he finds you attractive

[Sam]

I think it is possible that you might be looking to far into it. I think because of your feelings for him, you are looking for proof that his feelings are mutual. The best advice I can give is to just talk to him. Upfront communication is the best thing for a relationship. I know it can be hard to talk to him because of a fear of rejection. But you have to realize that rejection is really just a form of honesty. Imagine if he doesn't like you, but says that he does. How bad would that be later on down the road?

there are two ways this can go. 1) He can share your feelings and then you can start dating. or 2) he can reject you and you can move on to find someone who actually likes you for you. Both positives in my mind.

[Lucy]

It definitely sounds as though he likes you because, your friend is right, in order to 'like' an old photo, he would have purposely gone onto your profile and been looking through your photos. If nothing else, he definitely seems to find you attractive at least. He probably finds you attractive and therefore is wanting to get to know you as a person as he might see you as a potential girlfriend figure. Perhaps he's liking your photos because he's trying to subtly hint to you these feelings? I think that if you want to get to know him more too and can see him as attractive also, then you should definitely 'like' one of his pictures too. This will indicate to him that you might also be interested in him and therefore he knows more where he stands with you. It will give him more confidence and he might start to talk to you because he knows from this that you're less likely to blow him off. You won't look stupid, because, even if he doesn't have feelings for you, he liked some of your photos anyway. You're only doing to him what he did to you, so how can he find that weird if he did it himself? You've got nothing to lose, go for it if you want it. Good luck. Hope it all works out!

[EllenMay]

Hi Katie

yes go ahead and like one of his photos as otherwise you'll be wondering for the next 60 years! yes he likes you, I'd think.

[Anna]

if your both in college then look at it... imagine how many other girls he may or may not be liking photos of. i can like 564834 photos of hot guys in 10 minutes no prob. yes i think there attractive but actions speak louder than facebook likes.. try to talk to him.. get to know him. thatll mean more than a like on your photo which he could potentally be doing to other girls. hes a guy. but i hope for you that he does..

[Chloe]

he could like you! however, i go on peoples face books all the time when I'm bored and look at their interesting photos (kinda stalkerish lol) but then i don't wanna look as though I'm going all over their pages so i don't really 'like' the older photos very often, unless i like someone or they are my good friends. it could be signal that he's finding out more about you!

[Kennedysma]

Just talk to him. Not the "hey do you like me?" talk. Just a conversation that doesn't involve facebook. You'll get a lot more out of that than a like on a photo