Can guys and girls be just friends?

[Jess]

I'm asking this because I'm really confused about one of my good guy friends.

We're pretty good friends, I'd say he's my best guy friend and I'm his best girl friend. We talk or message almost everyday and always post jokes and things on each others facebook.

All our friends joke around about us hooking up and make fun of us because they think there is something going on between us.

He's such a shy person and not confident with girls at all so it's really hard to tell if he likes me or not?

Saturday night I was hanging out with him in our big group of friends. When I left he messaged me asking if I was going out which I wasn't, but he kept messaging me and quoting songs and things to me. Then at 3am he called me asking me to please pick him up from town..... Which I did. But I just dropped him home, but he stayed in the car for ages chatting to me. Then for a dress up party he's going as the hulk, and he's asked me to please buy him the paint and paint him.


These are just some things which are outside of our normal friendship which I find confusing! So do you think he likes me?

[ms.g]

yes, he does. chatting all day would be normal since he is your best friend. I think, shy guys tend to be more sweet when it comes to a girl they like.

[janina]

It seems like he likes you but he is shy and probably doesnt want to mess up your friendship that's why he's sending you mixed signals. Do you like him ?!