what have i done to make him do this to me :(?

[kate]

Please read i have tried to make this as short as i can without leaving too much detail out. i have known this guy since march of last year. when ever im out especially at the beginning of the night he just stands around chatting to his friends and turns his back to me. we were drunk the 1st time we met. we ended up kissing (he lied and said it was his birthday. his birthday is in july not march) and afterwards he asked me for my number he has text me a few times asking me when is he 'going to get another kiss' or to go for a drive with him. he added me on facebook soon afterwards (he removed me a few months ago and stopped answering my text messages too and a few weeks later he re-added me). when we are out he texts me something like 'having a good night' or 'not talking' even though we are in the same room or sitting across from each other.

we did sleep together in april last year but we haven't kissed or done anything since. we spoke again on facebook a few days later after we slept together and he asked me again if i wanted to go for a drive i declined. i sent him an angry text message when i left the nightclub one night and this time he responded back. he said he 'regretted falling out' with me and told me it was over his guy friend (who is also my friend and he likes me a lot its a complicated mess). he sends me messages asking me am i 'up for a drive' and asking me up to his place which is located outside town. he was really nasty with me on facebook a few months ago just because i sent him a few text messages. he never even bothered to respond to any of them. he said he didn't want to have anything to do with me anymore and when i suggested we stop talking when we see each other he said 'sounds good' and he also said 'i dont want anything to happen with us again basically blunt but true'. im really hurt over it. Just a few days after that incident he deleted me from his facebook account again for the 2nd but this time he blocked me. ive met him 2 wednesday nights in a row recently and neither of us have spoken we just looked at each other maintained a bit of eye contact and looked away. he came over to a table i was sitting at with a friend and he left his drink down. should i spoken then was that an invitation?? i also heard from a friend that he called me a 'low life' and that my friend shouldnt talk to me anymore. but i also heard he liked me too. i bumped into him another night and he sat at a different table with his back turned to me but i noticed he looked over his shoulder at me twice. i also seen him out another night he said hi to my friend not me but when i looked back he had a smile on his face. another night he rubbed his body off mine as he walked by. i also noticed earlier today that he removed me from his blocked list on facebook after 9 months of being blocked. i can now view his profile. what should i do if he tried to re add me? i met him again on sunday and again he just glanced over his shoulder twice at me.

[Marie]

He may have been talking to other girls during the times he was mean.. You may have been his fall back girl. Dont put to much into looks, yall have a lil history, so thats normal.

[tia]

He's a total game player. Decline his friend request if he sends one. Don't put up with crap.

[FXDXT03]

Stop hanging out in nightclubs and get a change of scenery. Do something constructive take a night class at college join a bike club start jogging etc...You shouldn't expect to find a whole lot of decent anything at a nightclub. If he thinks you are a low life and tells his friends that he just isn't the kind of guy that you would want anyways.

[Special]

Hes playing games with you, ditch the loser. Everytime he askes you to go for a ride it souunds like he still wants that kiss and to sleep with you. Block him on FB he sounds very immature, why are you waisting your time with him.