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My mom is seriously pissing me off?
11-09-2012, 11:19 AM
Post: #1
My mom is seriously pissing me off?
I know I probably sound like a spoiled b***h right now, but it's true. This is probably like all of those other teen rants about their parents too, but I just need something to get off my chest and perhaps some advice.

First off, I shall list what she had done today that resulted me into being really pissed off:
1. She keeps interrupting everything I say.
Yes, we're supposed to respect the parents, but it's really ticking me off. She does this probably everyday.When I try to say something, she interrupts me and sometimes she just asks a question about something I just told her about right after, showing that she wasn't listening to me. And most of the time she isn't doing anything else except looking at me.
2. Today she kept yelling at me to wear makeup
because she thinks someone beat me up and/or kidnap me. Wearing make-up will not prevent pedophiles from kidnapping you. It'll probably increase the chances of kidnapping more. And she thinks someone will beat me up because one of my old friends turned into a bad influence and I stopped hanging out with her a long time ago before that happened. My mom saw a post while she was looking ( or should I say stalking? ) at my old friend's profile on Facebook saying that my old friend was pissed off and she's going to kill someone. My mom took that TOO seriously and thought my old friend was talking about me because she thinks my old friend got mad at me for not hanging out with her anymore.
3. She barely lets me go hang out with my friends.
Most of the time when I ask her if I can go over to a friend's house she either says "it's too late" or "you spend too much time in their house" when she really means that she doesn't like them. She thinks ALL of my friends are bad influences and she thinks I'm not responsible enough to make any good decisions. I have tried talking to her about that but she always begins yelling at me and in result, it makes me yell at her back. She had called all of my friends ugly and some of them bad people just because of how they look and/or dress, but in reality they're sweet and funny people.
4. She also has this obsession for me to only hang out with my own race,
which is Vietnamese, and keeps asking if someone was Vietnamese. I guess you can say she's racist. She doesn't really want me to hang out with Hispanics nor African Americans, and she only wants me to hang out with Asians and Caucasians.
5. She keeps talking about my old friend and saying what wh*re her mom is and how she's turning into her mom
and stuff when she knows that I don't even hang out with her anymore. It seems like she keeps bringing her up if she's losing an argument, even arguments that have NOTHING to do with her. I have told her to drop that subject tons of times because I barely talk nor see her anymore and that she's not going to do anything.
6. She keeps putting me down
by saying I look too skinny ( and I already know that and I'm currently trying to gain more fat but it's difficult for me. I am not anorexic, I've just been this way since I was little ) and/or sometimes ugly. I didn't care at first but saying it almost everyday is really getting on my nerves.
7. She won't leave me alone.
She always thinks I'm talking about her when I get a text and demands to see my phone. She knows my Facebook e-mail and password so she can check monthly, and now she wants to know what's my Instagram account again but I won't give it to her because last time when I did, she posted nonsense. Posting pictures without my permission and etc. She assumes all my friends on there know my old friend and posted saying that she was a bad influence and stuff. I changed my password after that and only let her look at the photos once in awhile while I watch her. She also wants to know what's going on in my school life, but I only reply it's good because she takes everything too seriously and almost always ends up yelling when I tell her something.
You might be thinking, "Well, go lock your room!" "Go take a break or something."
No. Just no. She has a key to all of the rooms in the house and always barges in even when I tell her to knock first. And when I DO take a break by going to my friends' house or something, I always come home then get pissed off again when I see her face and/or hear her voice.
There's more but I don't want to type anymore. I'm already planning to move as soon as possible, go to college and get a good job, and never come back to my parent's life again. I barely talk to my dad so I don't have that feeling of love or hatred for him. I don't want my future husband nor children to meet my mother, if I ever have any.
You're probably not gonna read all of this, but atleast I got it off my chest. Excuse the bad grammar if there's any in here. Too lazy to edit.

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11-09-2012, 11:27 AM
Post: #2
 
If she is legit calling u/doing to u these things then she has something wrong w her cause no normal parent wud say that (not saying that theres something wrong with u u seem fine). She sounds like she has a controlling personality so just google 'is someone i know a control freak' type quiz and see what happens because it asks about little things u might not pick up that ud notice. I'm sorry to hear about ur horrible situation she sounds so mean!

Oh and in regard to the first thing on ur list my mums like that too ur not alone!

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11-09-2012, 11:27 AM
Post: #3
 
I read all of it and I really do fell a as my Mom dose the same things (but I don't have a facebook and she doesn't know I have emailSmile ) and she doesn't call me ugly but she says im dumb all the time but she doesn't use the words and every day she tells me my hair is bad don't where that and "don't say that that's bad for your Dad people are going to look up to you as your Daddy is a Teacher of G-d and you can't talk about House of Anubis or Avatar you need to just be nice and act like you are listing to Daddy ok Sweet Pea" as saying that you can't be your self and don't talk about what you like or sing or dance things you like or I well y'all at you tell the end of time so I get it as well as the friend thing to I always ask my Dad if I can get to see my friends and he says yes but when Mom finds out she is like a bomb! k so just tell her how you fell and also start putting cameras every where and make a mash up of her fighting with you and doing every thing you hate and tell her how it makes you fell and be nice to and my be get her candy so it wont be to bad and your grand kids do need to see your Mom because I know who it is like to have never met a grand parent as my Grandaddy died 11 years before I was bron and my Pupa died when I was 8 months ok but maybe then you mite live a long long long long way away from your Mom and not to be able to see her for more then once a year ok so think of it that way and do tell her to not be racist! That is not good at all k but just do what I said and oh make it funny to that mash up! It needs to be funny or it well not work (I think) but still tell her how you fill ok and brake a leg (says girl that can't say good luck)
(and P.S I do not AND I DO MEAN NOT! Call my Mm and Dad Mommy and Daddy my Mom calls my Dad Daddy ok that's what she really says ok so don't make fun!)
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