does this sound like emotional abuse?

[kate]

I know the post is long but there is no shorter way of putting it. I think that a friend of mine is manipulating me. he can be very jealous if he sees me talking to or texting other guys. i dont think i have lead him on in any way apart from kissing him a few times. I was out for a few drinks with him and a few of his lad friends. There was one guy i had never met before as he was a college friend from outside town. We got talking and we seemed to get along. I didn't fancy him but he was a nice guy. I got a text message from my friend from across the table saying 'if you get with my friend im not gonna talk to you anymore' he's 27 years old. i had sex with a friend of his we had a brief fling nothing serious. he then asked me to have sex with him saying he feels his friend 'ben' is a low life and he is much more respectable than 'ben' and he feels in order for him to feel equal to 'ben' i need to have sex with him because he will not be ok with me until we do sleep together because i gave his friend what he wanted. When ever i get talking to his guy friends especially he gets so jealous and accuses me of ignoring him and not being a proper friend. He has accused me of being ignorant with his friends and all his friends say the same thing to him about me. I feel like i cant win with him. If i chat to his friends he accuses me of ignoring him and not being a good friend and he also accuses me of trying to get with them. He told me his friends don't like me. Why would i bother talking to them if that is the case. Im thinking of just cutting all ties with him. he has a degree in psychology. I think he has influenced other people and turned them away from me. i met a guy a few months and got talking to him as he was new to town. at the end of the night i gave the guy a kiss and he seen it. he then said he walked off to his car and said he started screaming and told me he cried and wanted to punch the guy in the face. he text me yet again while in his car with more or less the same message as before. he said he no longer wants to be friends cause it doesnt do anything for him anymore. he wants us to be a couple but i just think he's too possessive and controlling. he also told me if i really cared about him i'd have sex with him. he has also threatened to do 'something stupid' and said 'i wonder if i died would people miss me do u ever wonder that' and 'maybe you will feel better when i do something stupid ok'. i feel trapped and dont know what to do. he put a status on facebook about me calling me 'cheap and low' because i refused to have sex with him. he wanted to book a hotel and have sex the night of his birthday which was back in march cause he hasnt had sex in 'four years'. i told him before i was planning a date with a guy i knew and he really pressured me to cancel it and chose him or he will end the friendship. i went back to his house a few weeks ago for a house party (lots of others were there too) he sat beside me while we were watching a movie everyone else had gone to bed and almost forced me to lie into him when i didnt he got up and said 'f**k you' and went to bed. he came back down with a blanket and just kept standing over me so i called a taxi and left. he also said he was going to find out the car details of someone i was intimate with and do damage to his car. he keeps telling me he loves me and just wont take no for an answer when i say i dont want to be in a relationship with him. i havent spoken to him since wednesday (on facebook) and i havent been on a night out with him since last friday. he refuses to let me go out alone with friends or even my sister. if i go out without telling him he finds out as i am not on facebook and texts me with a load of abuse. everyone seems to like him as he is a 'nice guy' i dont think anyone would even believe me if they knew the truth about him. he has started to threaten me lately too saying 'ill pay' if i see other guys and is isolating me and threatening me if i go out with friends or family.

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[gw]

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