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What should I do about my 'friend'?
11-09-2012, 11:25 AM
Post: #1
What should I do about my 'friend'?
I used to have a group of 4 friends, me, Em, Anna and Jenna. maybe not a good idea to put their real names, but ah well.
I fell out with Emily and Anna in April. I made up with Emily like late may and we were closer than ever, in fact I consider her to be my best friend, but me and Anna still aren't friends.
In the summer holidays, I texted Anna asking her if we could be 'civil' for Emily and Jenna's sake. she said yes.
Once we got back, I went and sat with them at lunch, but it was really awkward so I walked away. i tried to again every day that week, but nothing.
Then on the Thursday night, the three of them went shopping without me. I was really upset, but I got over it and decided to just give up with Anna.
Then on Friday Emily ignored me all day. I couldn't go over to her because she was sat with Anna and my ex boyfriend, but she didn't speak to me at all, despite Jenna coming over to talk to me for a while.
On Saturday, they all went out without me again. and I saw on facebook they are arranging to do the same this weekend.
Yesterday I was walking to class with Jenna, and Em shouted 'JENNA STOP' and completely ignored me. I'm not exactly hard to miss, I have bright red hair, so it's not that she didn't see me.
Now I'm wondering why Emily seems to have given up on me and stopped speaking to me completely. We haven't spoke at all since last Wednesday, except when I asked if she was ignoring me and she just said 'whatever'.
I even tried to get a mutual friend to talk to her and see what's happening, but Emily just said she didn't know.
Should I try and speak to her again? Forget it and move on? Or just forget her? Thankyouu.

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11-09-2012, 11:33 AM
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There's no reason they should be ignoring you and leaving you out. Obviously Anna's been saying things to Emily about you that makes her not want to be friends. Try to get Emily and Jenna alone and talk to them about this. If they're still going to be jerks and not work with you on this then maybe it's time to let go and move on. I'm sorry and friend troubles are hard. Hang in there and try to work it out best you can. Good luck.

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11-09-2012, 11:33 AM
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Forget that bitch, wtf why waste your time begging her to come talk to you if she wants to act like a bitch walk away, make new friends, she the one who need to come begging for you not vise versa. Be the cool one. you didn't do nothing so he has no reason to act like that so just forget them.
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11-09-2012, 11:33 AM
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I basically had the same problem with me and my mates. I would ask someone who Emily and u are both close to to have a word with Emily because maybe Anna said something to Emily about you that is not true. And if they don't want to be friends then that's their loss cause there is a reason why people from your past aren't in your future Smile it is hard but that's life! I've basically lost 4 friends totally and another 2 (who dont really want to admit it) because of one girl! And the lies she told (they believed) plus the going out thing happend to me too they promised we all would go but .... never happend. Really, just smile and things will be ok Smile
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